I'd met a woman off Tinder a little while back. Closed the deal the first night we met, and a few times since. She seemed cool with things as they were. Then all the sudden, she was offended and upset I wasn't ready to commit and have LTR with her. This after knowing her for about 3 weeks. So next!

I don't care who you are, if you're looking to move into LTR territory after 2-3 dates, you're crazy, even if you are fucking them. If you're gonna fuck on the first date, you still gotta realize you can't take the sex that seriously or as a sign of bigger emotional investment.

It sucks a little because this chick was really good in bed. I get dominant and assertive, she ate it up and reveled in it, and she was top of the class in terms of BJ skills. However, good sex doesn't make crazy worth putting up with. Been there, done that, not doing it again.

All that said, anyone else on here experience a woman being cool, then all the sudden shifting to LTR pressure like that? I have, and it's getting tiresome.