Hero says "No" to pregnant woman wanting to cut in front of him in the Men's bathroom. Amusing sidenote: I got banned for linking to this sub. Image only; please don't participate in the referenced thread because of this post (Rule 4)

otakuzod · 2020-03-12T18:55:17+00:00

Not the asshole. Her crotch goblin is not your responsibility.

banjonbeer · 2020-03-12T20:35:21+00:00

A couple years ago I was in a popular college bar (pretty much all bars in my area are college bars given there is a major university here).

I went into the men's room to piss and it's pretty crowded but no line outside or waiting inside. There is, however, a woman talking on her cell phone and standing in front of the urinals.

She wasn't pissing. I guess she wanted a quieter place to have a conversation.

I asked her, "What the fuck are you doing in here?"

Apparently, I was the only man who dared question her presence there.

She looked surprised but hesitantly continued to talk on the phone. I then said, "Get the fuck out of here before I call the cops you pervert".

dukunt · 2020-03-12T18:24:01+00:00

You're not the asshole. Is it against their policy to link articles or is it just this sub that you can't link to? Edit: I just remembered that I've been permanently banned from r/aita myself. Otherwise I'd link this post to their sub

AloeMyChildren · 2020-03-12T19:28:43+00:00

Wonder why the pregnant woman didn't just force herself next in line for the women's toilet? Why the women in there didn't just part like the red sea automatically, let her through? Very rude how those women treated the pregnant mother, right?

Also, how sure is he she was pregnant? There are other explanations for fat, entitled women than pregnancy, and I feel it's too early to rule them out.

Anyway, played out well.

alexzang · 2020-03-12T23:43:22+00:00

Take this in for a moment, we now live in a society that is so beyond fucked we have to ask if the MAN in the MENS bathroom WHO WAS THERE FIRST is the asshole for not letting a pregnant woman barge into the wrong bathroom and disregard the normally socially accepted value of waiting ones turn. I don’t give a fuck if she’s pregnant or not, no excuses to act like this.

fuck_bruh · 2020-03-13T05:08:19+00:00

That sub is just filled with sjw snowflakes who can't handle being told they're wrong, a cool idea ruined by a community of shitheads

53withtrollhair · 2020-03-12T19:20:03+00:00

I am banned from AITA for calling a woman that cheated on her husband a 'lying, cheating, whore.' Did I say something wrong?

The name of the sub is - Am I The ASSHOLE?

readdidd · 2020-03-12T21:57:48+00:00

reddit moderators are the real pussies here

paxilpwns · 2020-03-12T21:31:28+00:00

NTA. She was not reprimanded like you would have been had you stormed into the women's room. Too bad for her.

2020-03-13T02:28:33+00:00

I got banned from there in a story about a girl who accepted a drink from a stranger at a bar, she said she had two sips but got roofied and was later sucking face with him and maybe her friends saw or some shit like that.

I suggested that after all these years and all these stories, maybe dont accept drinks from strangers and made some reference to a kid sticking their hand in hot water and crying to mom about it.

They some fragile assholes over there, dont sweat it.

2020-03-14T00:12:40+00:00

Well AITA is basically a bunch of clucking hens and a few supporting white knights, so this is par for the course.

2020-03-12T18:26:55+00:00

I consider heroes soldiers over siege or firefighters

RedditsBreadNuts · 2020-03-12T19:59:48+00:00

Kinda had something kind of similar happen today, minus all the mods and banning, I was downvoted for calling out someone who basically said all men want is sex. They got upvoted. This was on r/dating_advice, sorry, off topic, just wanted to share.

SaggyMcbaggins · 2020-03-20T14:04:02+00:00

Wait in line bitch. Everyone has problems you’re not special.

2020-03-12T18:51:17+00:00

That place is a shit hole. Nothing lost, sir.

expresidentmasks · 2020-03-12T19:03:05+00:00

Your answer didn't have any sort of explanation.

FormulaDifter · 2020-03-17T14:28:43+00:00

Men’s bathroom, she had no right to go into there. Just another entitled bitch

thebarberstylist · 2020-03-13T08:02:50+00:00

The only people I let cut the line are children. They can't hold it, they aren't supposed to hold it. I had chronic bladder and UTI infections as a kid. I couldn't hold it. Straight up peed in class one day :/

2020-03-13T21:48:58+00:00

Was banned for telling a guy to get his affairs in order before confronting his cheating wife. That’s it. Guess I hurt someone’s fee fees.

NTA btw.

Rykensnow · 2020-03-14T10:43:00+00:00

I can only see one thing wrong here and that‘s the fact that she uses the mens bathroom

feverX_Xdreams · 2020-03-15T01:58:40+00:00

I would say NTA and let the guy know a complaint should be lodged with HR if harassment continues.

I wouldn't have minded the pregnant lady waiting in line or even asking if she could go ahead, it's the presumption of entitlement. If her pregnancy prevents her from being professional she shouldn't be working.

VadeRetroLupa · 2020-03-17T13:43:52+00:00

Hehe.

“The other one is occupied!”

“So is this one, ya dumb cunt!”

ChadChrist1103 · 2020-03-31T00:49:25+00:00

You’re not the asshole, she needs to use the women’s

HWGA_Gallifrey · 2020-04-05T03:57:04+00:00

The AITA mods are toxic pieces of shit. Not worth the trouble.

ghetterking · 2020-03-13T05:13:30+00:00

i despise line cutters, especially the "oh hey i know you mind if i just stand right behind you" type

but honestly if someone just asks and gives me even just a half decent reason, i will usually just let them go before me. heck i usually let people with few items go first at the cashier if i have a cartful without them even asking

please indeed is a magic word

almostgraduatingsoon · 2020-03-16T03:12:33+00:00

NOT THE ASSHOLE

sadowsentry · 2020-03-17T05:00:12+00:00

That's interesting. I've never encountered a situation like this anywhere besides a club. I'm not sure if other women just let pregnant women cut in front of everyone else, but I can't remember ever seeing a woman just decide to hop over to the men's room, even when the line is offensively long.

needleboigurl · 2020-03-19T19:55:37+00:00

But... aren't pregnant women allowed to do that? They're pregnant... they have a handicap

EvAnZeGeek · 2020-03-30T09:30:12+00:00

Found the simp mod.

knumbknuts · 2020-03-12T22:19:00+00:00

You're NTA. She's the Asshole for thinking she's entitled and has higher priority because she spreaded her legs like the thot she is.

emforay216 · 2020-03-13T07:47:34+00:00

Time to make an alt and post this to AITA lmao

XSasuken22X · 2020-03-18T06:18:06+00:00

You aren’t the asshole. People are just brainwashed. You had nothing to do with that woman, her being pregnant has nothing to with you. She can wait like everyone else. If she needs / wants sympathy she can go burst into the women’s restroom and use that one, they’d more than likely be more accommodating... oh wait. Guess not.

Adric_01 · 2020-03-18T16:26:17+00:00

I had a comment deleted for "Not being civil" My comment was nowhere close to being uncivil.

sad_and_stupid · 2020-03-20T01:03:34+00:00

Almost all of the comments say NTA, so you weren't banned for saying it. I guess it's because you didn't write an explanation

Eve0529 · 2020-03-22T03:44:25+00:00

Yeah AITA has shitty ass mods. I called someone a 'piece of shit' (he was an abusive father, his daughter made a post in another sub about how shitty he was and he wasn't remorseful or apologetic at all). I was banned for a month just for that. Like, what? I'm a mod in a different sub and I've never handed out a ban longer than a week, other than permanent bans for trolls or spam accounts.

cyktic · 2020-03-28T13:38:10+00:00

That sub is full of leftist cucks.

MrHupfDohle · 2020-03-30T08:51:28+00:00

Not the asshole and that sub is trash. The admins there suck and are braindead. Dont pay attention to them.

phatpeeni · 2020-03-30T15:18:44+00:00

You are not the asshole; it sucks being pregnant, but yo if you're about to shit your pants I feel for you.

furry_annihilater · 2020-04-28T11:06:59+00:00

Pregnant women can be vulnerable but she can't use that as an excuse.

B0b_R0ss666 · 2020-05-05T18:04:46+00:00

You don't deserve special privilege's because you got creampied.

jamesjabc13 · 2020-05-05T21:08:11+00:00

Lol r/AITA mods are absolute trash anyway

2020-03-12T20:47:37+00:00

some wench getting creampied isnt your business

zasahfrass · 2020-03-12T19:33:54+00:00

Reddit is trash

flyingdonkeydong69 · 2020-03-19T17:01:23+00:00

Hero says "No" to pregnant woman wanting to cut in front of him in the Men's bathroom.

Seriously? "Hero"? Fuck, this sub really is becoming an incel breeding ground.

This isn't even PPD; the woman was being a rude cunt, but not once did the guy mention her flaunting her gender to get what she wanted. His coworkers are asshats for neglecting his situation simply because the woman was pregnant, but still, no PPD. This is more like an r/insaneparents thing.

Gr_ywind · 2020-03-16T00:43:10+00:00

That sub went to shit when they went full white kniggit.

Iconoficons · 2020-03-16T02:44:59+00:00

Their mods are beta cucks.

I got banned for calling a woman the asshole after she body shamed her boyfriend.

Jabbuk · 2020-03-12T18:54:33+00:00

This sub is garbage.

50% of self validation 49% of biaised context 1% of borderline & intersting content which could bring discussions but get banned.

dfmock · 2020-03-16T03:37:06+00:00

Have her arrested for sexual assault and file an EEOC complaint on the gender bias.

smokalotopotimus · 2020-03-17T10:24:23+00:00

Fuck her she can piss in a bucket or wear a blob in future.

AnnaBortion26 · 2020-03-18T09:15:42+00:00

I hate that Reddit allows this shit to go on.. So fucking disappointing what this site has become.

Njume · 2020-03-20T20:03:44+00:00

Good for you OP.

bowlonatbl · 2020-03-26T15:40:21+00:00

Fuck her fucking fuck trophy, she can go piss outside with the rest of the other animals that can’t control their unnecessary procreating.

BarKeepBeerNow · 2020-03-31T03:53:55+00:00

NoWaifuNoLaifu23 · 2020-04-14T10:01:32+00:00

Ok guys women assaulting men and false claiming rape is bullshit after all and fuck every bitch doing it but. Cmon its a pregnant lady maybe she was telling the truth maybe she had to puke seriously or she had a problem you never know. Why you guys are being extreme mad men because a pregnant women needed to go to toilet. Btw its a NAH

BeneYVR · 2020-06-01T07:33:58+00:00

Ok I am 8 months pregnant and please understand the need to pee at this stage of pregnancy is insane because the baby (roughly 2.5kg at this stage) is pushing down on your bladder at all times. Think taking a pee every hour type of pressure.

That said I have resorted to using a men's washroom (when empty and available) and have refused to let a senior go before me who I know purely from an age perspective have need to pee more so than a younger person but just like this poster I was not sure I would be able to hold it.

That said indigestion with impending potential diarrhea is way worse than having to pee urgently so no you were not the asshole. What I would have done in this situation is ask the women in the women's washroom to please let me go first. Or if I entere a mens bathroom a) knock and b) ask not assume you just can use the next stall.

In any case having nature calling with such urgency is not pleasant no matter your gender.

hueydeweyandlouis · 2020-08-30T19:24:50+00:00

No, but apparently the people you work with are...

EatingQrow · 2020-03-13T07:20:55+00:00

ADA - discrimination based on medical ailment

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