tl;dr If you find a high SMV guy, what is the ideal N count (or range) that you would prefer he have?
Regardless of what the actual number is, I'm curious as to preferences.
Do you not mind, no matter how high his N count is?
Do you prefer a much lower number, maybe even virginity?
Or do you have a general range that is a "sweet spot" in your mind?
I ask because some on here will make the argument that if he's high SMV, and either an alpha or sigma, that he'll have a N count that is generally considered high or "in range" in proportion to his SMV, whatever numbers "in range" represent.
But I'm interested in what some may consider the outliers. Those who truly are alpha or sigma or greater beta, whatever one's preferences are, yet have a low N count or even virgins.
If you were (or are) single, and find this SMV guy that you're attracted to, would you date/marry him? Or does his low N count make it a deal breaker for you?
For instance, you have some celebrities, Terry Crews for one, who has stated he was a virgin until marriage, another being the Seattle Seahawks quarterback who a year or two ago, said he and his girlfriend were waiting on sex, yet another being Tim Tebow, the former NFL quarterback. Most would say these men are at least alpha, sigma or greater beta and have high SMV.
Forget the athletes and celebrities, though. Say you find a high SMV guy, and for either personal (doesn't want "trap pregnancies, drama, diseases, no matter whether rare or not) or religious reasons, have a low N count or is a virgin. He's exhibits all or many qualities you want. You're attracted to him. He's financially stable and/or successful. He ticks off almost or all of your boxes for rating SMV. But he has a low N count. What do you do?
What is your N count preference for a guy, if you have one?
Additional thoughts: One can certainly argue that a higher N count equals greater sexual performance in the bedroom, and rate it higher based on that. A decent counter argument is that (lots) of practice and communication gets you there eventually.
Also, a high N count doesn't necessarily mean more sex. As a silly example to illustrate this, if a guy's count is 10, but the women all had low sex drives and they were only together once a week or once a month while together and they didn't date long.
But another guy has a count of 1, but they had sex daily or multiple times daily and dated for many years, then the lower count guy actually has more sexual experience (minus the variation of women) than the higher count guy. Minus any virgins, which obviously wouldn't be applicable in this example.
Your thoughts?
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