Red Pill At Work

Littlewifey · 2017-02-27T14:25:10+00:00

I'd say to be ambitious at work. Your objective at work is to be successful. Success at work is different than success in a relationship. Unless you have a specific co-worker or regular customer you want to have something more with, then you can be feminine with that person.

Kara_El · 2017-02-27T18:11:59+00:00

I have read in Red Pill blogs not to help men because they should be leading. Is that only applicable to dating?

Good lord, don't try to do this in the workplace, if you intend to be taken seriously. You'll look at best, weak and at worst, lazy.

If you want to take Red Pill lessons to work, then remember not to get caught up in the "crab basket" and try to pull other women down so you can move up. Wear feminine professional attire (read: not a pantsuit) and keep your emotions at bay. That's pretty much the only way the Red Pill is going to apply to your profession. Think Joan of Mad Men... except... don't sleep with your boss.

asteadyheart · 2017-02-27T16:48:20+00:00

To be honest, I don't think RPW really should come into your work life. They don't care if you're feminine (unless you work in a position that requires it, like selling women's clothes), they only want you to be capable and hardworking.

If you constantly defer to male employee's for the right move, it will just make you come off as weak. Especially if you'd like to work in management, you need to be in control and not need help in running your department.

But that's my opinion and experience. I'm pretty sure if I started to implement RPW into my job, the supervisor above me will not think twice about replacing me as I've suddenly made him do his job AND mine.

Willow-girl · 2017-02-27T14:06:33+00:00

It feels odd to not offer help to my male coworkers, as I'm just a naturally helpful person, but I have read in Red Pill blogs not to help men because they should be leading. Is that only applicable to dating?

IMO, yes.

Jayms · 2017-02-27T19:59:50+00:00

I would say reserve most things RPW for your relationship. That being said, there are some ways it can help at work. For example, I have some colleagues who are males from countries which are very masculine. Almost all the women in the office complain about them, call them sexist, hate them, create problems when working with them. Well, I had to deal with one regarding a certain situation and everyone kept blaming him for not supplying some information despite numerous email reminders.

Someone mentioned to me that perhaps he did not understand the situation and was too embarrassed to ask for help. Instead of berate or blame him, I applied some RPW concepts and went to his office dressed nicely in a pencil skirt and heels, sat down in front of his desk, and politely asked him for help and offered my assistance. The information I needed was resolved within the hour and it had been dragging on for months! Now some might say that he was at fault blah blah blah, but I got what I needed and he got to save face. Win-win.

Pinelero · 2017-02-27T18:35:34+00:00

Look up some of the working with women topics on TRP. Those entries are geared towards guys working with women, but they do illustrate intra-gender dynamics to avoid.

pinkdrawings · 2017-02-27T20:55:23+00:00

If I'm being honest - I don't see the reason to be a RPW at work. RPW is a SEXUAL strategy. Unless you're having sex with someone at work - just do your job.

onacasserole · 2017-02-28T03:42:13+00:00

When you're at work you are the captain of your career. What's important is that you don't stay the boss when you get home, but at work...go for it! You don't have to be a jerk or intimidate people, friendliness is hugely rewarded, but definitely pitch in and offer help when people need it, take initiative, work as hard as you can. Your future husband will appreciate a wife who is a hard worker, whether you keep working longterm or not! A strong work ethic is an asset and it's totally different from being a nag at home.

BunnaeRabbit · 2017-02-27T20:49:40+00:00

I want to say thank you so much, ladies! Everything said here is what I was hoping for, since I definitely don't want to be seen as lazy or do anything that would start to bring down my reputation with my bosses. Greatly appreciated advice :)

Title	Red Pill At Work
Author	BunnaeRabbit
Upvotes	9
Comments	13
Date	February 27, 2017 1:17 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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