My Girlfriend and her Roommate are in the Other Room Spouting Feminists Talking Points.

RapeMatters2 · 2018-10-22T22:09:39+00:00

You should get one of your mates to have the same discussion in another room, but in reverse.

Nah, I kid. You should probably consider your options and your future.

DrFinessePHD · 2018-10-22T22:30:44+00:00

This is EXACTLY the type of situation woman complain about when they are the victim. Piece of advice: if she can’t have a rational conversation over this, she’s not worth your time

Tgunner192 · 2018-10-23T01:09:46+00:00

Geesh, I wish you luck dealing with it. My honest opinion is you are flirting with disaster going any place near woman who talk like that. Whenever a woman tries to engage me in a conversation like that I pretend I don't speak english.

mikesteane · 2018-10-22T23:14:56+00:00

Don't argue just ask questions. "In what way are men privileged?" etc.

And don't get angry, just laugh when she thinks that top jobs are simply given to men because they are men. Keep your frame. Or part company with her.

ThePigmanAgain · 2018-10-22T23:00:26+00:00

Time to get a new girlfriend.

Ser_Dakota · 2018-10-22T22:19:34+00:00

Honestly idk if i could be with someone like that. Not only because i disagree, but fear of upsetting them and then being accused of rape or something.

Adanu0 · 2018-10-22T23:28:03+00:00

I'd have walked right into that room and discussed workplace deaths.

HyperionC132 · 2018-10-23T00:17:31+00:00

I thought the answer was clear. You need a new gf!

fengpi · 2018-10-23T01:20:30+00:00

"Women get ridiculed if they don't stay home to care for their children."

That is some down-the-rabbit-hole steroid-popping bullshit she is huffing. Seriously, to believe that is to believe that the fucking tooth fairy is coming to slit your throat.

When you have a girlfriend like that, here is what you must do.

kevingrumbles · 2018-10-22T22:24:35+00:00

Why would you be with someone who has such a poor view of your gender?

darkpenlimit · 2018-10-23T00:47:50+00:00

I would be unable to date a feminist, but many are weak minded and have a follower mentality. Her friend probably stuck all this in her head and she doesn’t know the facts.

throwaway_ftb · 2018-10-23T02:08:24+00:00

ditcher quick & hyde

2018-10-23T07:24:59+00:00

Maybe one day I'll feel brave enough to tell her.

She already has you by the balls. F.

JewishAnomaly · 2018-10-22T23:41:33+00:00

My ex-girlfriend

FTFY

2018-10-23T06:10:23+00:00

After a few month of brainwashing she will be full femnazi.

trampkid · 2018-10-23T08:00:49+00:00

Grow some fucking balls and stand up for yourself.

Mackowatosc · 2018-10-23T08:59:14+00:00

Dating a feminist without being a feminist is just asking for trouble. But you mentioned she might just nod along with what her roommate is saying. My advice: See where she stands, then decide.

LabTech41 · 2018-10-23T02:57:05+00:00

Leave her, leave her fast and leave her forever; it WILL only get worse, and nothing you say will change her beliefs. You'll only make it worse for yourself to try and reason with her about it; your only option would be to completely acquiesce, in which case get used to being her disposable slave.

It sounds harsh to leave and ghost her, but given your situation it's honestly your best available option. You're kidding yourself to think otherwise.

DangZagnut · 2018-10-23T22:37:01+00:00

You...feel like you need to get out of there?

Sounds like a relationship that will end in aggravation at best.

Lethn · 2018-10-22T22:49:25+00:00

I just don't get it, the only way I could understand even touching a woman like that is if they were extremely attractive. I would have dumped somebody like that in five seconds if I found out that's what her views on men were but then again they probably wouldn't even make it to first base with me if they behaved like that generally anyway.

kungfoocraig · 2018-10-22T22:06:03+00:00

Lol just shout out to her "those sandwiches won't make themselves" (just for fun)

euchreislife · 2018-10-23T10:08:15+00:00

As a white male I'm yet to have been in any way convinced that I'm inherently priveleged. Sure in some ways such as I'm generally not looked at as a POI by cops but I fail to see how I'm privelegd in any other way.

Pblur · 2018-10-23T14:01:52+00:00

Tell the truth. Have faith that the outcome of telling the truth will be the best possible outcome (in spite of possible short-term pain).

Every day you sit on this without confronting your fear of her reaction you make your character weaker. It's not worth the sacrifice of a lie (even of omission). Your character and your frame are of the utmost importance; in the end, she wants a man who's worth something. Be that man.

SJW_Skeptic · 2018-10-23T05:01:20+00:00

The best response is to ask open ended questions that may direct her to discover another perspective. do you think it is bad if a woman decided to stay at home supported by a spouse of her own free will? Should she have the right to choose that life. Should her spouse be able to oblige her to work equal hours so that he can coparent equally. How would you feel about me if I decided I wanted to work part time so I could stay at home with the kids but we earned less and had to move to a worse neighborhood?

QuasiQwazi · 2018-10-23T10:16:18+00:00

You need to exert your rationality now. If you don’t you are doomed to a life a cuckery. Grow a spine.

Title	My Girlfriend and her Roommate are in the Other Room Spouting Feminists Talking Points.
Author	ThreeLF
Upvotes	35
Comments	73
Date	October 22, 2018 10:04 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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