Guy and a girl have consensual sex then have a political disagreement. "It feels rapey" It's no wonder the world is so polarized.

sillymod · 2017-02-02T23:34:42+00:00

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FultonPig · 2017-02-02T21:06:36+00:00

Implying this was her own fault for sleeping with someone she didn't know very well is called slut shaming.

YES. It was her fault that she voluntarily slept with someone without getting to know that person first.

What is it with Reddit and completely refusing to accept any personal responsibility? If you buy a car without a driver's license and get into an accident, is it the fault of the person who sold it to you, or is it your fault for not learning how to drive first? If you vote for a candidate who then gets elected, and then you see that he killed several people, is that the candidate's fault that you voted for him, or is it your fault for not doing your research? There are fucking downsides to not trying to get as much information about something as you can before you interact with it. If you don't, it isn't someone else's fault, it's your fault. One-night stands have downsides. That's why some people don't fucking do them. Pointing out the fact that there are potential downsides isn't fucking "slut-shaming", it's regular-person shaming, and for some people, that's the only way they'll learn that their actions have consequences.

The only person who called her a slut is the person who brought up "slut-shaming".

Sasha_ · 2017-02-02T20:58:40+00:00

So...if I read that right, they fucked and then during post-sex cuddleing he said Trump should deport her, and then shit in her sink?

Well...the days of chivalry really have died I guess.

ThatNinaGAL · 2017-02-02T20:59:27+00:00

"It feels rapey" is, indeed, a stupid thing to say. Being disingenuous about your politics is not "rapey." It's pretty pathetic, to sleep with somebody you think should be deported, but it's not "rapey."

Taking a dump in his sink before leaving, however, was a pretty brilliant move. Nonviolent but really gets the message across that his behavior was socially unacceptable. I hope that she finds other ways to make him pay a social cost for his actions and warn other women away from him. If everybody at their college is calling him "Shitsink" by the end of the week, that would be just lovely.

nisutapasion · 2017-02-02T22:42:12+00:00

I thought that she made an accusation or something serius like that.

I agree with her. That guy is huge asshole.

Telling here thar Trump is going to deport her but must be done is clearly racist in this contex.

He said it only based in her race. So yes. It's racism.

She leaving a turd in his sink was shity move but not unreasonable and he totally deserved it.

That been said.

I don't agree with this "she should have sex without knowing him better".

Yes, she probably wouldn't have sex with him if she knew he was a racist bastard. But why should she needed to know that?

She was interested in having sex, not in building a relationship.

He is the asshole who fucked a girl that he thinks should be deported.

I know people who says "I will not fuck with anyone with X ideology" and they state it in their tinder profile.

Sadly I also know a couple of asshole s who started spitting political shit after having sex like this guy.

One of them even told something like "I fucked you and now I fuck your ideology" (he was ranting abut our current president who is less left that his predecessor and this guy is a moronic leftis, literature teacher at public schools, involved in the teacher union, and a HUGE looser who could keep any job).

herearemyquestions · 2017-02-02T20:43:31+00:00

You are trying to polarize right now you hypocrite

Title	Guy and a girl have consensual sex then have a political disagreement. "It feels rapey" It's no wonder the world is so polarized.
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Date	February 2, 2017 7:59 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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