Fuckboy: An Increasingly Popular Misandric (or Homophobic) Slur.

xNOM · 2015-08-18T13:43:51+00:00

meh it's the same thing as 'bitch' just playing on different negative gender stereotypes.

I don't really care. Words aren't going to hurt me, especially words with such a nebulous meaning. If someone calls you a fuckboy in an argument, you've probably won.

mattreyu · 2015-08-18T15:42:20+00:00

Isn't this basically slut-shaming? I thought that was a bad thing.

privilegechecked85 · 2015-08-18T14:04:25+00:00

They were just called players when I was younger.

Girls love to complain about them, but then they also love to engage in sex with them too. So, whatever.

Demonspawn · 2015-08-18T15:39:30+00:00

Nice Guy: a man who gives a relationship to women hoping to get sex from her but doesn't.

Fuckboy: a man whom women give sex hoping to get a relationship from him but don't.

StarsDie · 2015-08-18T16:34:01+00:00

“A ‘fuckboy’ is a young man who sleeps with women without any intention of having a relationship with them or perhaps even walking them to the door post-sex."

And then the article goes on to describe this guy: “Fuckboy is not a dating style,” claims Alana Massey, “so much as a worldview that reeks of entitlement but is aghast at the prospect of putting in effort.”

Is it not 'entitlement' to EXPECT a relationship just because you opened your fucking legs? You're not owed a relationship because you had sex with a dude.

2015-08-18T16:27:54+00:00

I actually used to use that term in reference to myself when I was a prostitute. It's the same as the term "pig," but for sub twinks. It's a young guy who wants to service as much cock as possible.

goldmouthdawg · 2015-08-18T19:12:59+00:00

‘fuckboy’ is a young man who sleeps with women without any intention of having a relationship with them or perhaps even walking them to the door post-sex. He’s a womanizer, an especially callous one, as well as kind of a loser.”

I grew up when fuckboy and fucknigga was primarily heard in black communities in Miami. This person is full of shit.

haveasigarda · 2015-08-18T20:41:50+00:00

This subreddit is gay. Y'all are some fuckboi's

Azrael-sama · 2015-08-18T17:20:14+00:00

I'm glad that somebody finally spelled out whatever the hell a "fuckboy" is. I've seen it used in random discussions on this site and was starting to feel like a total idiot (or just old maybe) for not knowing what it meant...

2015-08-18T18:02:45+00:00

I love how the article defines 'fuckboy' as basically the worst kind of man....and then goes on to explain how they are actually still good for having sex with....so I am not even good enough to be a fuckboy.

2015-08-18T18:09:57+00:00

I've never heard or read anyone use this word without joking, is that just me?

TheRealMouseRat · 2015-08-18T19:26:12+00:00

If a girl calls me a fuckboy I consider it a compliment.

snugglas · 2015-08-18T19:53:48+00:00

“A ‘fuckboy’ is a young man who sleeps with women without any intention of having a relationship with them or perhaps even walking them to the door post-sex. He’s a womanizer, an especially callous one, as well as kind of a loser.”

hang on? So a dude who gets laid a lot is now a loser? Talk about projecting insecurities.

Lrellok · 2015-08-19T05:38:22+00:00

Watching society not even remotely cope with the impact of 3rd wave feminism is hilarious. Oh, lets see here, you abolish all gender roles and replace them with nothing, tell men they will benefit nothing from society thus ensuring they have no obligation to care what society thinks of them, and attack stable relationships as degrading to women, and you are shocked, SHOCKED when a toxic dating culture develops.

Que Suprise.

ManRAh · 2015-08-18T17:34:28+00:00

I hear "Fuckboy" used far more to describe just... guys who women fuck. It's just a slightly derogatory way of saying Fuck Buddy that is gender specific.

Wait...

OOOOOOH... of course it's that Self-Hating, White-Knighting Moron who wrote that he feels guilty about enjoying grilling.

2015-08-18T18:19:13+00:00

The connotation of the word is filled with shame, but because the double standard of slut/stud is one that exists due to evolutionary biology, I think the term fuckboi will slowly turn into a synonym for "player".

Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of relationships.

Gstreetshit · 2015-08-18T20:04:35+00:00

fucboi*

Wargame4life · 2015-08-18T21:40:01+00:00

is this really an attempt to shame men into dating or committing to women? lol

its hilarious, I have no qualms in being considered a "fuck boy" if anything its a badge of honour.

denach644 · 2015-08-18T23:08:49+00:00

Why on earth do we care about this? Boo hoo there's a mean word that's directed at men?

mikazee · 2015-08-19T02:33:39+00:00

I'm cool with the word fuckboy, what annoys me is that these same people think it's sexist to use the word bitch.

I'm fine with slurs just not hypocrisy.

twistyquasar2 · 2015-08-20T13:56:53+00:00

nah this fucking article is so stupid because most of the time people use fuckboy to mean a ridiculous person theres another term called "fuck niggas" to mean people who aint shit and thats what a fuck boy is

sexancandy · 2015-08-18T15:49:52+00:00

Don't you just hate it when feminisms whine about words?

Get over it fuckboy

augizzz999 · 2015-08-18T15:54:30+00:00

Doot doot fuccbois

Title	Fuckboy: An Increasingly Popular Misandric (or Homophobic) Slur.
Author	Man-jusri
Upvotes	70
Comments	51
Date	August 18, 2015 1:35 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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