Met Up With Ultra Successful Friend That I Haven't Seen In Almost 20 Years, Wife Acts Like Total Bitch During Visit

Clauderoughly · 2014-01-14T17:38:58+00:00

She hates you because you are a freeman, bringing news of freedom to the slaves.

TRPsubmitter · 2014-01-14T14:26:40+00:00

Guys for whom success with women came easy need a kick in the balls (getting burned by a woman) before they wise up. To him, this is just reality and he doesn't know different. This is par for the course and what is required in "relationships" for him. He got rich, attracted this type of woman (gold-digging, entitled) and thinks that's the way it is.

Cue old stand up comedy jokes about wives nagging, hogging the blanket at night, and forcing you to go shopping

Unfortunately, he won't wake up until he catches her golf instructor's cock down her throat while she is wearing the $80,000 engagement ring he bought her and the $100,000 car out front, followed by him losing the house and forced to move to his downtown condo. Then he will suddenly realize "WTF just happened".

Until then, I'm afraid that any effort by you will fall on deaf ears.

Stayinghereforreal · 2014-01-14T14:50:23+00:00

I will now don my Sigmund Freud coat!

He is reaching out to you in part because he knows something is fucked up, but can't quite put his finger on it. You represent a time in his life when he had things better figured out.

Wife understands this now too, after meeting you and seeing something in him start to awaken in your presence. She has to lock that back down, hard, if there is a pre-nup or his money comes from a source she cannot otherwise access.

jagrmeister721 · 2014-01-14T16:09:47+00:00

But we're told husbands have done something right. They've "proven" their value to the opposite sex and attracted a young, fair maiden. We're supposed to follow in their noble footsteps. After year 3, I don't know if I've met a single married couple, who's wife makes me think: marriage would be a good idea.

troubadour1492 · 2014-01-14T23:43:08+00:00

The problem with "providing" is similar to trying to feed a fat kid. You feed him massive breakfast, lunches, dinners, and desserts for a year, so much that you think he should be overjoyed and greatful that you are laying such wonderful, massive food in front of him.

Next year though, he's fatter. He's used to that much food. Now, he needs more to feel that pleasant fullness. He wants more variety, more expensive food, more quantity. He keep growing fatter with your feeding, meaning that he needs more net food to keep him happy.

10 years down the line, you're starving so he can eat his 10000 calories a day, and if you fed him as you did the first year, the fatass would throw a tantrum. His standards change and morph so that what he once thought was extraordinary providing becomes average and expected.

Give a woman nothing, every time you buy her a little $5 trinket or dinner, she will be overjoyed. Give her everything and "save" her by ushering her into a upper class life... she won't appreciate it for longer than 2 months. You'll have to keep upgrading your financials to keep pace with her rapidly upgrading tastes and entitlements.

Even if you're a billionaire, you can't win this game. If I was a billionaire being juiced like this, I would prefer that my money went to my children, charity, my friends, funding for projects I believed in, etc, than a woman who I am obligated to "provide for".

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MattBoBat · 2014-01-14T18:28:00+00:00

Good share. These kinds of post help keep my RP mindset sharp.

I still sometimes catch myself shifting into an auto-niceguy-pilot mode when interacting with some women, but have been getting better and better at recognizing and implementing RP strategy in my every day life.

I've mostly lurked here since I subscribed a half year ago or so, and I honestly feel that the majority of the guys in this sub are extremely well educated and enlightened. I thoroughly enjoy reading most of the posts and I am constantly surprised at how many of you guys can really hit a nerve with something you say that resonates deeply with me.

allex8800 · 2014-01-14T17:21:31+00:00

Women always bitch at husbands when husbands buy toys for themselves.

The woman sees no practical value it in for her or for the family, so therefore it's a waste of money in her eyes.

It very well might be a waste of money, but it's his money to waste - and otherwise none of her concern - especially if he can spare it.

But hey, this is what women do. Every married man knows this. All you have to do is point out all the superfluous crap they have and usually the discussion is over. They don't want to lose their stuff over complaining about what you got.

Cyralea · 2014-01-14T18:25:18+00:00

Be aware that the wife probably also sees you as low-status. It's a common theme with wives of rich husbands, they want to consort with others who are similarly wealthy and married.

You likely being neither probably makes her stick her nose up at you. Guarantee she's slandering you to her husband behind your back.

Panoolied · 2014-01-14T22:26:37+00:00

...Also, I tend to bring that out of wives and girlfriends because I live an unattached life where I'm chasing my dreams, hooking up with 21 year olds, and generally having fun all the time. The wives and GFs all know their husbands and BFs envy me and always talk about how they wish they could do what I'm doing, so that obviously pisses the ladies off.

Hilarious. Seriously, comedy fucking gold.

consumer_of_fungy · 2014-01-15T00:29:51+00:00

I still surprise myself with the understanding that you can accurately judge the value and quality of a man by his woman.

If the wife is fat and unhealthy, chances are the man is. He doesn't value himself so she becomes secure in letting herself go.

If the woman is loud, obnoxious, and bitchy, chances are the man is pitiful and lacks strength in his character.

Money, wealth, power, etc, etc means shit if the man does not value himself. In his wife's eyes she deserves the lifestyle he is providing her because she has the unfortunate role of having to put up with him. He doesn't satisfy her needs with his wealth. This is why she treats him so poorly and why she can unapologetically treat him like trash in front of others. This man is on a tightrope.

[deleted] · 2014-01-14T19:23:30+00:00

You can't save the world. If your friend reaches out to you, give him advice. If he doesn't, keep your mouth shut.

I have a friend whose wife moved out the same week she got her degree, that he paid for. I tried presenting RP to him, he agreed with what I was saying and then started talking about how to get her back.

Kimjungillestt · 2014-01-14T18:27:22+00:00

Currently where I work I see a bunch of older men come in and buying product, when they come by more than half of them comment saying that they have to make sure to get the right thing or else the wife will get mad, or that they'll be in trouble or some shit. It's just dumb, it's their fucking money yet the women are controlling it. Fucking dumb. I see it all the time.

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FortunateBum · 2014-01-14T19:48:40+00:00

It just goes to show, even if you're the absolute best "provider" it'll never keep a woman happy or in check.

Yup.

WN5h · 2014-01-14T17:00:09+00:00

Your buddy is probably FUBARed. Unless he locks his household down (whcih probably wont happen) his hands are tied. If he has no kids it'lll hurt less but because ya'll are in Florida thatvalimony would bite. Better have a prenup.

marlybarrow · 2014-01-15T00:08:12+00:00

I have a question, to all those who say he should be more assertive towards his wife regarding what he does with 'his' money; is it not 'their' money?

Zackcid · 2014-01-14T17:26:43+00:00

You should ask his permission next time if you can call her out on her BS and disrespect her. The only reason why you should keep your mouth shut is because you respect the man she's with.

RG68 · 2014-01-14T20:45:25+00:00

What is it that you do? Sounds like you've set yourself up with a good life, I'd be interested to hear more.

Title	Met Up With Ultra Successful Friend That I Haven't Seen In Almost 20 Years, Wife Acts Like Total Bitch During Visit
Author	allex8800
Upvotes	119
Comments	67
Date	January 14, 2014 2:15 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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