The Dating Pool Dropouts

purplish_possum · 2023-09-15T13:39:17+00:00

Men at the tip-top of the dating pool get everything. And the men who don’t have it all get nothing.

Dating meets late stage capitalism. Winners take all.

EverVigilant1 · 2023-09-15T16:12:23+00:00

Good find.

The article offers no solutions for the problem. In fact, it doesn't even state this is a problem. All it does is just say "gee, wow, this is going on with some men. And it's getting worse for them. It's starting to affect more men. Oh well. Hey, but how bout them bitches?"

This is true of most articles and blog posts and videopodcasts talking about this with men. It's the same thing. "Men are falling behind. Eh; there's nothing we can do about this!"

What solutions are there?

1) Men, get more attractive (where "get more attractive" means "become Chad"). The problem is that men simply cannot do this. The best they can do is improve one, maybe two, SMV points. That's not anywhere close to enough to meet women's unreasonable, skyrocketing standards. They can't improve facial structure or height. For the most part, they can't fix baldness. They definitely cannot change their races.

Men also cannot fix the fact that most men are not attractive to most women.

It's Chad or bust for most men. And since most men cannot be and will never be Chad, it's bust.

2) Women, lower your standards: Women will not do this. Women don't have to do this. They've proven over and over again they'd rather be used and abused in a Chad harem than have one guy who gives a shit about them all to themselves. So be it.

3) Return to pre-sexual revolution society, "Marriage 1.0", traditional marriage. Men would probably do this en masse. Women will not.

4) Cataclysmic societal collapse of some kind which somehow forces both men and women back toward each other. That's not likely to happen in the next 50 years or so. This also depends on the confluence of a number of forces, events, and contingencies, none of which can be predicted or controlled. I also doubt this is what most people want, nor could they really handle it even if they did want it. So this is even less likely to effect any kind of change now or for the foreseeable future.

So this will not change. It will keep going down the path we're going down now. Where it probably ends up is a kind of technologically advanced Middle Ages - a small class of ultrawealthy nobility with polygamy and polygyny. Chads with multiple wives and concubines. A large peasant/serf class of mostly sexless men. Whatever few women who are not in a Chad harem will live in poverty or scrape by with a peasant man. Most men get what sex they do get from prostitutes.

Women in Chad's harems are at Chad's mercy - he treats them however he wants, and women put up with it. Women who tire of it can leave; but they will become 100% financially responsible for themselves. And they will have to leave their children with Chad. This is going to happen because the nobility, the landed gentry, will band together and make the laws they want. And the laws they make will be: we get everything, everyone else gets nothing, if they want some of what we have they will do it our way.

I have no problem with this. I have no problem with women bearing the full force of the consequences of their choices.

There are no solutions to this problem. There are no systemic solutions short of complete societal collapse, which no one really wants, because it will have far reaching consequences far beyond who gets sex and from whom and because a societal collapse cannot be predicted or controlled. There are no individual solutions because men can't be what women want; and women don't want the men they can actually have.

So be it. Let the decline happen. Enjoy the decline.

zastale · 2023-09-15T12:03:30+00:00

There’s no shortage of women that believe they’ve actually succeeded based on merit, as if daddy government hasn’t propped them up.

FortniteAbobus · 2023-09-15T14:12:37+00:00

20/80

mewbestpokeman · 2023-09-16T02:09:35+00:00

Absolutely brutal article describing the brutal reality of dating for men today. It's beyond over for a lot of men.

rolurk · 2023-09-16T06:36:05+00:00

I really despise these types of articles now. The people that write them don't give a flying fuck about the men they interview.

It's just another way to give people a way to shame and browbeat dudes who don't want to go out and get rejected 50 times as if they are some soulless automatons with unassailable self-esteem.

Lunar-Serpent · 2023-09-15T17:43:31+00:00

Patriarchy comeback when

Hillwalker71 · 2023-09-15T14:26:01+00:00

Oh wow, a news story on single males that isn't just a soapbox for alarmism, feminist bullshit, revisionist history, misplaced revenge fantasies, and thinly veiled eugenics 😮

Fabulous-Assistant16 · 2023-09-15T12:10:11+00:00

Of course no one will want you if you are depressed, miserable, desperate, dont even bother trying and shift blame. Get yo shit straight and be a fun person to be around, theres an overabundance of women for these type of men cus a lot of men simply arent up to it and instead sit down in their caves feeling sorry for themselves. so attractive.

Chemical-Night-3433 · 2023-09-15T12:49:23+00:00

So if I have a good dating life does that mean I’m at the top 20 percent of men?

Title	The Dating Pool Dropouts
Author	kukkle1111
Upvotes	36
Comments	67
Date	September 15, 2023 11:55 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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