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Women’s advice be like

Trick_Log7442 · 2023-08-19T20:00:24+00:00

“Just go to the gym sweetie and self improve” Same women: “I find dad bods very attractive I don't like gym bods”...

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August 19, 2023

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Title	Women’s advice be like
Author	Trick_Log7442
Upvotes	14
Comments	118
Date	August 19, 2023 8:00 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
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Where do you derive your confidence? Are you incompetent in everything you've worked at? Work, sports, online, and so on?

Fucked up, straight up evil people date. Out of shape, badly dressed people date. Why don't they need to self-improve? Why don't they need to be the "best versions of themselves" (because they're obviously not)?

Billionaires also date. So? They aren't you, and they have no bearing on you. Can you imagine an average Joe giving up on dating because he could never afford a jet for his date? That's the level of nonsense you are bringing up.

Also, let's compare this to test taking. Some people have high iqs and don't need to study. Some have to study intensely and are able to pass. Can you imagine how idiotic it would be for the latter to cry about how it's unfair the high iqed folks don't need to study?

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Where do you derive your confidence?

Nowhere.

Are you incompetent in everything you've worked at? Work, sports, online, and so on?

Pretty much. Never had a job, never had a hobby or interest. I have no idea what "so on" could entail.

Billionaires also date. So? They aren't you, and they have no bearing on you. Can you imagine an average Joe giving up on dating because he could never afford a jet for his date?

What the fuck are you talking about? This is the opposite of what I was saying. I meant that normal people, even when they're not self-improving, even when they're not the best versions of themselves, date. Because they're normal.

Also, let's compare this to test taking. Some people have high iqs and don't need to study. Some have to study intensely and are able to pass. Can you imagine how idiotic it would be for the latter to cry about how it's unfair the high iqed folks don't need to study?

And many low IQ people fail the test, even when they study. Thank you for providing a great and new analogy!

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What the fuck are you talking about? This is the opposite of what I was saying. I meant that normal people, even when they're not self-improving, even when they're not the best versions of themselves, date. Because they're normal.

So you're clearly not someone that falls into the normal category, but you're comparing yourself to them? What a brilliant way to fall short. How are you surprised by that? Just not having a job is far from the norm, so again, why are you comparing like you should get the same results as them?

Pretty much. Never had a job, never had a hobby or interest. I have no idea what "so on" could entail.

Then you have the first things you should work on. I have no idea what your skills are, but I would look at any assistance that your local government would offer. Job placement or training, for example. There's also online classes that you can take online to get a feel for what you might enjoy doing. Khanacademy, coursera, etc.

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So you're clearly not someone that falls into the normal category, but you're comparing yourself to them? What a brilliant way to fall short. How are you surprised by that? Just not having a job is far from the norm, so again, why are you comparing like you should get the same results as them?

Because I'm a garbage human being that must know its place?

Then you have the first things you should work on.

When you lack basic socialization, the necessary interactions of a job are impossible.

I have no idea what your skills are

I have none.

but I would look at any assistance that your local government would offer. Job placement or training, for example.

Not everyone lives in a western welfare state lol

There's also online classes that you can take online to get a feel for what you might enjoy doing.

Never "enjoyed" anything like that. The concept of enjoying a class is baffling.

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Do you see a lot of women dating criminals? I've seen a good share of people who have issues with the law due to my mother's job, but people with chronical issues tend to date each other. Women going for these men often have some issues themselves and they aren't your regular girl next door type. Sure, some good girls fall for criminals, just as some good guys fall for women with a known history of jail times or addictions. They're the exception to the rule and they usually are somewhat troubled themselves, i.e. family issues or mental problems.

It makes sense that you get professional recognition. Your job doesn't mean women have to date you though. And yes, your height is a dealbreaker for most women. If I'm not mistaken, 4'2 is already in the bracket of dwarfism? You might have more success with women with a similar height, but your dating pool is very narrow just due to the condition. I'm sorry you have to go through it.

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That's...not really true? People generally don't date others because they're "nice", dating requires more than that and inherent part to it is sexual attraction which is more complex than "oh, he's tall and makes a bank". Yes, your height is your biggest disadvantage, it's a medical condition at this point and I'm pretty sure women with dwarfism have dating issues as well, although they have higher chances to find a partner.

Most women don't want some random music teachers kill themselves. But if by "not want them kill themselves" you mean "would date me under the threat of suicide", it is a completely different thing.

You get love from your students and their parents, it's just not romantic love. Romantic love isn't something people are "worthy of", it's something mutual.

What is evil in dating people you find sexually attractive?

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We know for a fact women with dwarfism have no difficulties. they get literally hundreds of messages a day online. Have you tried making an account as one? I have, I know for a fact how easy it is for women to never be alone.

no, I know for a fact women want me to kill myself. we know for af act how much women despise men who help others.

There is good reason there has never been one female in my adult life willing to just try and be my friend.

Personality, your life, these things don't matter to a woman. she would have to talk to you first, and not one of you sees us short men as human beings. not one of you is willing to just interact with us for even 5 minutes.

Romantic love is something you have to be worthy of, as a woman you automatically are. as a man, if I was taller, being as educated, fit and successful as I am I would have gotten women.

But I'm 4ft2. There literally isn't one single fucking female willing to treat me as a human being and talk to me for 5 minutes.

You don't know one. stop the lies.

Its evil because you're dating purely on physical attraction and that's its. stop trying to defend and make excuses for how INSANELY shallow every female is.

We get it! you cunts don't give a fuck about our personality or life! WE FUCKING GET IT

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I'd be curious how many men would date long-term a woman with severe dwarfism. I'd guess some guys just didn't read the bio in the first place and a good share would ghost after the first date.

Why? Does someone tell you that? Besides some people who violate and murder others I don't really want other people to kill themselves. I think most people share this attitude really.

I used to have a classmate who was pretty short - shorter than 5' I think. He had multiple female friends. Sure, he struggled romantically, but girls did talk to him. The last time I've seen his social medias he had a gf as well (but he also got his condition treated so he's below average but probably not in the dwarfism category). And, well, we see men on a shorter side who do have friends and dates...It's different for people who have medical condition though and I do think that having dwarfism makes one's dating life really hard to deal with and I'm sorry it is this way. It doesn't make women evil though.

Physical attraction is one of the important requirements for dating, as most people want to have sex with their partner. Why do you think it's evil?

If you gonna throw insults, I'll stop this conversation and refrain from interacting with you any further.

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