I wanted to write something here for everyone that was once like me. 14 months ago My wife hit me with Divorce. I was devistated. I came hear and truthfully It seemed like I was scrolling through Horror storys and reading the comments from all the Sympathetic guys out there just trying to help.

I was a wreck. But I followed the advice I got here. Stop drinking, hit the gym and delete social media. You have to do the Holy Triad. After I got that done I found a therapist and was doing weekly sessions for probably 6 months and that also helped alot.

Now for the good stuff. Im happy as hell. I got back in the dating pool and I met an amazing woman and am going out and doing fun things. Looking back I realized this is what we (ex and I) both needed. She no longer occupys my headspace everday. Hasnt for a long time and I can honestly say I have moved on.

Stay strong. The nightmares, sleepless nights and heart aches will go away. Youll come out the otherside legally free from Her. And your life is not over. I was married for 20 years and I feel like im living the second life I always dreamed of having. Got my own place make my own rules and ended up with a pretty awesome Girl Friend.

Your life isnt over. Your going ot be fine. Stop Drinking. Join the Gym. And stay the fuck off Facebook.