So I’ll keep it short because my list of problems in my marriage is astounding. My wife found my app that I used to keep my nudes of girls that way they were secure but what my idiot self forgot to realize was that if she had access to my phone then she could circumvent the security by just resetting the password from my email but that’s besides the point. I know that being married I should have gotten rid of all of them and I am no way shape or form denying that was a huge fuck up on my part but the issue as grown beyond belief. I did get rid of all of them but not before she took pictures of all of them and has since threatened to send them to these girls along with other very personal information every time I wanted to end things.

This coupled with our other issues I finally asked for a divorce a few weeks ago because we have had a very rocky marriage and since then one of my exes requested to follow me on social media a few weeks ago and even after our falling out we were decent friends still so i accepted because we were soon to be separated so why would it matter right. My wife is now pissed beyond belief since we haven’t fully separated she says she is going to send her the nude I had of her and I am debating on just talking to her first to explain before she gets blind sided. Any advice?