I was married to my ex for seven years. She was cheating, and became pregnant from it. Her fling is in prison for life now. We had a son together, who is now 7 years old. She divorced me. She said she just doesn't like being tied down. Anyway, I am paying Child Support for another 11 years, which is not a problem. I love my son. I "adopted" (not legally) her daughter from cheating, because I love her daughter very much, and I am the only father she has ever known. Anyway, I have no spousal support obligation now, per the divorce order. I have been paying my ex's rent, bills, and other things since the divorce, because I love the kids, and if left to her, they would be homeless and starving. She keeps saying she wants to relocate either to Mexico, or Arizona. I live in Central California. I found out she is buying lottery tickets, bought a brand new van (whick caused Social Security to cut her off from SSDI. I keep paying, so she will stay local. My question, how much is too much? It seems she is just using me. Am I just a dumbass? Anybody else have a similar situation? Thanks for your answers!