After she filed recklessly I spent $22k on a better lawyer than hers and got the divorce finalized last week after eight long months. She’s buying me out of the house and I have a great custody schedule where I get to see my kids so often that she’s probably questioning everything. She’s paying me to have the kids every summer (I’m a teacher) until 2028. We are living together for two more weeks until my apartment becomes available. Yesterday she tried to take the kids out of the house and I had to pull out the parenting schedule to put a stop to it. I took the kids to the Saturday market and then out to lunch and had a great time without dealing with any of her bullshit. I thought I might feel somewhat sad, but after the hell she’s put me through it was nothing but happiness. They say no one wins in divorce and, while that may be true, I sure feel like the victor! I don’t know that I’ll hang around this forum any longer so good luck, fellas. There is happiness to be found on the other side of whatever she’s dragging you through!