Did you get bitter or better?

NotUsedUsernameYet · 2022-01-07T10:44:25+00:00

I got both better and bitter. These are not mutually exclusive.

azwildcat74 · 2022-01-07T14:53:22+00:00

I am better AND bitter but voted bitter until I can honestly say I'm just better and not bitter every day. Get a little closer all the time.

Classic_Dill · 2022-01-07T14:31:11+00:00

I'm for sure bitter at her, but I'm also much better at the same time. better, more educated person without a doubt.

dukecharming1975 · 2022-01-07T15:18:44+00:00

Better, but I was bitter AF for the first 2 years and my ex wife is still a lying, cheating bitch. I just learned to accept that

ABBucsfan · 2022-01-07T16:28:09+00:00

i prefed acceptance instead of bitter. i wish er well, but know untik my kids are adults the drama wont end. itll always be thrre somewhere. ive also accepted im done with romance. im looking to be the bet father i can be, building new and old lost friendships, diving back into hobbies, volunteering. im betger because i have the freedom to do all thoe thinfs without always checking eith someone else, working around schedules, feeling guilt, etc.

Adorable_FecalSpray · 2022-01-07T15:17:44+00:00

What is mewwing? Why are you posting so many meaningless polls man?

You can tell from these replies you are missing the actual process of what guys are going through and their thought process.

Eedoryeong · 2022-01-08T08:11:54+00:00

I'm just entering the long dark sphincterous tunnel that is separation and divorce, and have not yet climbed out the other side of it. So there's no category for me here yet. But when I do crawl out of this and hose off, I'll answer then.

Gattsama · 2022-01-09T07:22:09+00:00

I'm only separated (2mo+) but so far only getting better. Had the worst day of interactions with her since moving out today, and even then not just much bitter as just tried / wiped out. This BS with her is draining, I told her I wanted to terminate in mid Nov, she said she wanted to work on things. Was love bombing me, but switched it up today to the same out BS as previous (bringing up s&it from 14 and 16 years ago [only married 12 years]), blaming everything on me, talking about how much I've hurt her, how she is scarred for life (but choose to marry me anyway), etc. etc...

So can't predict the future, but so far = better. Haven't been this peaceful and stress free in years since moving out. And the ONLY source of stress in my life is her. So assuming that after divorce can only get better still :) Will see

Title	Did you get bitter or better?
Author	logogop
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	January 7, 2022 9:25 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/ry3iq5/did_you_get_bitter_or_better/
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