Seperation

Hi everyone,

My wife and I split up a few months ago and I had to leave the family home.

We have a 2 and 4 year old.

My ex and I set ground rules, or so I thought in regard to new sexual partners - that we would not have people over if the kids were in our care.

This is mainly because they wake up every night and come into our bedroom. We obviously said that serious partners are a whole different story.

I have recently found out my ex is inviting men over while they are there, and feel rather angry about it.

I pay her child support, half our mortgage and also give me $50 towards rates and water bills which pay over 3/4 of those bills.

I already know this happened once before, and confronted her about it and she said it wouldn't happen again because she wouldn't want the kids being confused or walking in on something like that.

I don't know if its jealousy, rage or what but I am very tempted to just pay her the bare minimum now.

She has the benefit of living in our house that we jointly own, and if she can't respect the one thing we both agreed on I don't want to pay for half a mortgage on a house she doesn't want me to even visit my kids in while she sleeps with random guys my kids don't even know when I know one night they will wake up and walk in there.

Am I just an angry jealous person?