Don’t even know how to ask this.

Beamformer · 2024-01-15T17:09:40+00:00

Before the snip and using condoms it was a challange. With cialis and the right chic, I achieved impressive feats last year. My ex was always sort of awkward sexually, my GF on the other hand puts on wigs and costumes and pretends to be all sorts of characters. It does take a minute to unlearn the person you are so used to, and learn sexually the new person you are with..at least it did for me. But being desired like I am now, it's a big motivator

MrInbetweenn01 · 2024-01-15T15:53:18+00:00

Imagine what it was like 30 years ago before you could just down a pill? Could you imagine what it was like getting to your 60s and realizing your cock no matter what you do will not get hard anymore?

We do not know how lucky we are to have a plan B.

I have always needed to be attracted to the woman to get an erection and usually it requires some special attention to get there too.

Have a bowl full of Viagra or Cialis nearby, it is not a hard game (no pun intended)

mhall1201 · 2024-01-15T15:46:31+00:00

If you’re not attracted to the woman, you’re having sex with, don’t have sex with her. If you are stressed out because of the divorce or your job or life in general, and you don’t feel like having sex, there is nothing wrong with that. Sometimes we all, just need to go back to our corner. Keep our head down a little bit and take some time to ourselves. Nothing wrong with that.

captainchippsixx · 2024-01-15T13:28:47+00:00

Common man. But lots of supplements out there you can take that will help with that. Neugenix line is at Walgreens. Largine worked for me. But they can also make you last longer. So if you’re not attracted that much to her then you still have a problem.

FUMoney · 2024-01-15T12:25:43+00:00

Ensure you are not manipulating yourself — and especially not to porn. Try to not do anything for a couple weeks, even a month, then see how you do in real life. Total abstinence for a week or three may give you a huge boost, as well as give you a temporary “reset” from your normal stimuli.

If you don’t watch porn, ignore this. But if you do, and you are self-stimulating to it, I think this can be harmful to your interactions in real life. This isn’t the place to discuss it. But there are many other forums, on Reddit and elsewhere, concerning how too much pornography plus overstimulation can cause significant physiological changes in your sex life. There are tons of discussions and studies on this, and even the most cursory overview would be too much to go into. So maybe read a bit about this.

Also, “normal“ women have commented that they simply cannot compete with a man‘s idealized visions of porn stars, pornography acts, nor can they match a man’s idealized thoughts and deeds while watching porn. Real human reality will never match his porn-warped fantasy. That does sound like a fair analysis from women.

So, abstain from porn and from stimulation for a few weeks. Exercise discipline, and don’t cheat by touching or watching porn. See if that doesn’t make a big difference.

whereami113 · 2024-01-15T06:38:41+00:00

I am 50m , and split up with my ex in 2015.

It took a while to get interested in any kind of sex for me, however there was a lot of stress and anxiety I went through . It took me a long time to gain an sort of confidence back .

Even Cialis, Viagra , Kamagra etc doesn't work unless you are in the mood, both mentally and physically. Its not a cure all that will give you a raging boner all the time.

As I get older, I prefer the mental stimulation of a sexual partner , a lot more than the physical at times. I have had partners, and some fun along the way , however most times I cant be bothered with the whole thing .Plus not having any kind of stress or anxiety helps. They are real mood killers.

I have had some fun with younger ladies through paying for it, but even that loses its shine after a while. Maybe its just me, maybe my T levels are dropping etc?

Smoking some pot always helps me as well, however I have to do drug tests for work , so it few and far between.

Most times now I just spend a couple of weeks on holidays having fun, transactional type , and dont worry about it for the rest of the year while Im making the dollars.

Shawn008 · 2024-01-15T06:23:53+00:00

Dude just get some cialis or viagra. Not a big deal. Most guys will have issues like this at some point in their life.

Sacramentardo · 2024-01-15T06:01:32+00:00

Yes. It is possible. For any or all of those reasons.

Title	Don’t even know how to ask this.
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Date	January 15, 2024 5:29 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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