Married for just over a year and going through divorce, wife hasn't worked in 10 months. She's trying to say that I told her to quit her job to take care of the house and kids. She has 2 kids, ages 7 and 11 that we have 50/50 custody. If she can prove I told her to quit her job and continue to stay home and essentially do nothing all day, does that mean she won't be liable for 50% of our credit card debt ($20k)?

All of the credit card debt incurred during our marriage. I only had $2k in credit card debt when we married a year ago. Being the sole provider and paying all the bills and supporting her 2 kids. I also bought us a house, her car and a boob job.