Generally wouldn’t be a big deal. But we’ve been divorced a little over three months now. She keeps scheduling our child’s appointments, which I’m responsible for taking him to, smack dab in the middle of my work day, short notice.

I asked her politely to coordinate with me before scheduling anything on my days so I can attempt to work with my place of work, who has been very accommodating up this point because they realize how difficult she is.

Of course she blows everything out of proportion and now refuses to communicate with me or even schedule appointment’s for the kid. Stating “you said I can’t schedule anything on your days.” Which is not what said.

What’s the best way to deal with this without completely losing my shit on her?

Edit: to clarify I realized I missed something. Basically what’s going on is the place requests to schedule appointments through a group text which her and I are both in. They will list some days and times, they generally always fall on my days which makes it my responsibility. Before I can talk with work, she responds to the place saying yes our child can make these appointments and times. Which then makes me look like the ass because I have to switch stuff around with them.