TBF, this is the 3rd time I’ve filed in the past 15 years. Always withdrew it because of the kids and noticing a “change” in her. The wool finally came off my eyes and I realized what a husk of a man I’d become. Almost like an indentured slave, bringing in good money for a nice lifestyle for her and kids. What did I get in return? Not a lot. Even the kids can’t do anything by themselves.

I know it’ll affect the kids, whom I love dearly, but life’s hard and they’ll get used to it and maybe even graft a little harder.

I know she’s gonna play dirty. She’s tried to mention DV (which I’ve never done), as well as other things.

This group has helped so much, so thank you to all of you who take the time to reply, it really helps having the motivation to see things through and have hope.