So after being told in December that my soon to be ex wanted a divorce. 4 months later she is finally moving. This women sat on her ass for 3 months rent free trying to start her spiritually intuitive healing business. She made no real money and couldn't contribute to the bills. Last August she quit her real job to pursue her own business.

I supported her decision then she decides she wasn't happy with our marriage. I didn't mention that she was emotionally cheating on me with people from an app called clubhouse. She was spending hours on this app listening to other people talk and then she found some dude that she called her brother. Talking to him before she went to bed and when she woke up. She had no shame while doing all this in front of my face and then telling me she wasn't happy with our marriage. I asked if it was someone else and she said her higher self.

After making me pay rent and most of the bills by myself for 4 months I also had to continue to live with this women, grocery shop for her and buy weed and any food from restaurants for dinner. I did this to avoid having to pay any spousal support when we file papers soon. I told her 2 weeks ago that it was time for her to get out of my life or I was going to go crazy. She knows what she did to me but It's not gonna hit her as to how she fucked up until later on.

I just got back from California last week and it was amazing. Told her I went to Kansas. I don't want drama I just want her to leave and be happy so I can get on with the rest of my life but I never thought I'd have to ask a grown adult to leave. I resigned a lease where we stay at, she gave a 30 day notice so legally she has to move. I've been up and down with my emotions over the last 2 months and I'm ready for her to exit my life.

We've been married for 17 years