Hi. I’ve been divorced for almost two years. We will be doing our taxes as a non married and single again this year. Our divorce was pretty easy and done by an uncontested lawyer. We actually never had to go to court and he got everything done. Everything is final and the judge signed, we signed and notarized etc. asset division we split. It wasn’t 50/50 bcs that’s what she wanted. She kept her accounts, I kept mine, I kept the house while cashing her out 45k and again that’s what she wanted. I’ve listed everything on paper such as my brokerage, HYSA’s account but the value wasn’t required to write down, 401k, Roth IRA accounts have been written on paper with the value were allowed to write down. So, I didn’t hide anything and whatever was under my name I wrote it down on the dissolution. Judge didn’t hesitate to sign. According to our lawyer which we had the same guy since this was uncontested, he said everything is final is Missouri state after judge signs except anything kids related. We have two kids and she actually has given me full custody and that’s what she wanted. I don’t think she was thinking straight at the time and she was the one to ask for divorce but I initiated the paperwork with the lawyer. Her plan was to leave the country and not come back and she did but came back after a month. Well, We are cohabitating and taking care of the kids. She lives with us and everything is okay. She’s asked me to remarry and let’s make things like they used to be but I have refused. I’ve made it clear that I don’t want to be married to anyone ever again and will not risk anything in my life. So she has given up on it except every once in awhile she does throw a let’s make it official stuff but I neglect it. I will eventually get fixed bcs I don’t want to have anymore kids. Anyway I asked the lawyer about our cohabitation and he says that we are basically just in a relationship and our state doesn’t recognize a common law practice but anything children related could be changed but it’s not a cheap nor easy thing to do in Missouri. Well I pay for everything related to my daughters and will be taking care of them. I’ve been writing her a check every month bcs she’s taking care of them as usual, I know that it’s her job as a mother but since I have full custody I want to make sure to prove that I’m fully responsible and have a record of it. I’m financially independent and make 140k plus or minus. I have a portfolio invested and I manage it myself. I’m 1.2m worth this include my house, cars, brokerage, retirement accounts, HYSA, ibonds and T bills etc. as you’ve been noticing, I’m very educated and speak 5 languages. English was the third language I had to learn. I didn’t want it to be like the way it is and thought marriage was supposed to be forever. However, the red flags and the request from her made me to get it done and protect myself and I did. I’ve worked really really extremely hard to be where I’m at 44 years of age and didn’t want to lose everything and she wanted out as quickly as possible and I tried stopping her but she refused. Even on the last day during notarization , I asked her if she really wanted to proceed and she said yes. My question is, I’m I at risk for anything? What to worry about? I have done whatever she asked for and our cohabitation is mostly bcs I’m a good person and I don’t want ppl to struggle in life. I don’t love her and I don’t think she is too but the kids have an easier life and I’m just going with it. I’m up to date on state laws regarding everything. Just wanted to know what others think about this situation. Just remember the best thing money can buy is financial freedom. Peace