Wife talked to a lawyer and found out I had filed. TBF she had really screwed me over, asked to separate, and was waving the lawyer flag a while back, so I felt like I needed to get some advice figuring this day was coming. I'd also hoped to buy some time and goodwill to settle a few things in counseling so I didn't have her served. Now she's on the war path doing everything you would expect. Life is going to be tough for a while. Nothing scares me more than losing my kid. She's been with me for the last 6 months, just us living a good life. Now I'm going to be cancelling plans we made and I don't know what our future holds. I don't even know where I'm going to be living next month. STBX's first move is to no doubt trash me as a father (she's already been practicing in therapy) and to claw my daughter back. I want to just break down but I'm trying to keep a face for her. I'm ready for this to be over so I know what is going to happen, but it's just starting.