The timeline of my last three-four years...

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Trying to have a child at what I thought was the pinnacle of happiness

To

Living in an apartment right off the pacific coast with a great job. Moved here site unseen knowing no one.

I am having a solo holiday season this year...but over the last 8-12 months I've taken my life back under my own terms. Still paying off debt i took from the marriage (sold the house she wanted until she didn't)... but it'll be gone soon enough.

My point to this? If you're in the middle of it or feel depressed/hopeless it does get better. You can fight your way though it.

Feel some confidence that the end of this year will be a turning point for you... regardless of your current situation.

This sub helped me at my lowest... and I mean my lowest. Know that you can bring yourself back and have a bad ass 2022.