Something that sucks is how she has assumably put a wedge between any mutual friends we had and myself. Every time she talks to me she tells me every reason why she left me and listens for me to give her more fuel to her fire. It’s like she’s building a case and I can’t argue with her because I’m exhausted and I don’t think she wants to be possibly wrong about anything, lol who has the mental energy for this stuff? I just know she’s telling everyone the same stuff she’s telling me and probably worse since I’m not there to defend myself and she’s trying to be convincing. I had to stop venting to one friend incase I was just giving up intel that was getting back to her. Idk what else to do but just stay on the low down and accept that these people I once knew are lost. In conclusion though, the worst part of this is to stand there as you helplessly witness your ex or stbex drag your reputation through the mud. Definitely a big blow to a mans pride, and makes you second guess yourself and if you really are as bad as she says. She’s pretty good at this, she has always liked dramas and has said as much I almost wonder if she enjoys the attention and wants to be the victim, ultimately making me the villain. I really don’t want to give her the satisfaction, but idk what else I can do.