So in the early days after my ex said she wanted a divorce, I got a white board and wrote “You Will Get Over This.” As time past and I understood that there would be no reconciliation I added, “She’s over you, you need to get over her.” Finally, I wrote “Everything Is Going To Be Alright.” These mantras which I looked at every morning when I got up and every night before turning off the lights to sleep, helped me get through the hard times of the divorce process. Now that the divorce is final, I want to erase the board and write new mantras for the next phase. What are suggestions for my new mantras?