Kids live mostly with their mom. I have been paying child support that is over $2K, per month. Kids are in elementary school for several years now. With the upcoming school year, ex is now requesting that I start paying for half of their school lunches. The divorce degree in terms of payments, doesn't specify specifically school lunches, but only mentions "mandatory school expenses". Should I be paying for their lunch? I would assume it comes out of their child support? Keep in mind, these are my kids, and I still want a cordial "decent" relationship with their mom, so a simple "tell her to pound sand" wouldn't be very diplomatic. But hell, I am already bitter with the amount I am paying per month. Is there a way to be diplomatic and tell her "no"?