I'm in the middle of a very difficult divorce. Mostly dealing with the fact that our custody battle is very ugly. My ex-wife has taken everything from me. I have been on my best behavior since it's all went down, desperately trying to mind my P's and Q's.

After we've had both already spent tens of thousands of dollars my wife insisted that we get the psychological assessments. I told her we were already killing ourselves financially but she was relentless. Make a long story short, the psychological assessment came back horrible for me. Absolutely devastating. This man absolutely tore me apart. My wife had the chance to go in before me, and it was the sales pitch of her life. She spent the entire assessment talking about what an absolute piece of s*** I am. When I went into the assessment this man had already made up his mind about me. He was literally scolding me from the allegations my wife had told him. Every time I would say something that he could possibly use against me he'd get all giddy and write it down like he was excited to add it to his arsenal. He interviewed people on her behalf and put it in the report, but didn't do the same for me.

He diagnosed me with narcissistic personality disorder. His entire report was just fancy words saying I'm a dangerous violent inattentive piece of garbage.He made direct recommendations that I not get the kids. So the guardian ad litem saw this and of course only gave me one night a week, and then visitation on another day.

My lawyer and I haven't come up with a game plan yet, but can anybody give me a little bit of hope?