My ex wife broke up with her boyfriend around thanksgiving. Met a guy on tinder, and got marrie over zoom in February. He’s in the military and deployed in Hawaii. She’s trying to move there (we live in PA). Says I’ll still get the same time (I get about 1 weekend a month and two months in the summer) so she wants to give me the two months in the summer and then 3 weeks over Christmas. And that’s it.

I’ve been afraid to ask here, because I know how cynical we all are about the court system. We both have lawyers, we’re going to court over this. What are my chances of winning primary custody? I can keep them in the same school district (14 and 11, both boys) and I have never had any issues missing visiting time and no drug or alcohol issues. I have a stable job and home.