First of all I fully admit we both have issues that need to be worked on. I talked about it with her and accepted my faults. I also explained the things she was doing that bothered me. We have already been to marriage counseling. Married for 11 years and we have 2 kids. 8F and 5M. She has health issues so she spends most of the time in bed sleeping. I do the majority of the cooking, cleaning, watching the kids, taking them to cubscouts, etc. I'm still expected to take care of the house, outside, and do all the other honey dos.

And to be honest, I'm exhausted. Despite all I do, she says she's greatful for everything but I still don't do the little things for her. My biggest problem with her is she is always yelling and getting after me in front of the kids. I've explained how disrespectful it is but she continues.

With that said, she told me tonight that she wasn't sure if she was in love with me anymore. She asked for space so she can figure things out but doesn't want me to move out. I'm currently sleeping in my son's room and she doesn't want me showering, changing, or anything like that in the master bedroom. This is now my side of the house while the kids sleep with her. I can hug her and give a kiss on the cheek when in front of the kids but that is it. Our niece is having a birthday dinner this weekend and she doesn't know if she wants me to go.

Let's say she decides she does love me and wants to stay together. How am I suppose to trust in her now? How do I know she really wants to be with me? I don't want the marriage to end but I'm totally gutted. I'm at a total loss and I don't know how to recover.

Does anyone have experience with something like this? I don't know what to do. Am I suppose to just sit here and wait for her to make a decision?