She's lying

Slowloris81 · 2024-10-26T17:12:02+00:00

Judges have a good sense for bullshit. Believe in yourself. Present yourself credibly. If your wife is lying, that will come out. If she lied about something, that will impact her credibility about other issues.

Also make sure your attorney has the evidence he needs to cross examine your wife to expose her lies. You should be proactive about gathering and getting this impeachment material to your lawyer especially if he is not as responsive as you’d like.

MR-Ozmidnight · 2024-10-22T17:47:18+00:00

Sure, here is the revised text:

"Look, do you know how many men get accused of this? Heaps. And they are usually dropped at the trial as there is usually no evidence. If you haven't been reported to the police by your wife, the judge will ask her why she didn't report you if she felt she was in danger. It's he said, she said, so don't be too concerned. As the others have said, be polite and courteous, for example: 'Yes, your honor' or 'No, your honor,' etc. Just answer with a simple 'yes' or 'no' unless the judge asks for more. Don't get mad at her lawyer as he will try to trick you up. Stick to the truth and give short, concise answers. Stick to those answers and don't enter into explaining things to her lawyer. If you can, write down when you looked after your daughter and when your wife did or didn't. And I'm sure your lawyer will guide you before the time. So good luck, and I hope everything goes your way."

This_Train340i · 2024-10-21T19:11:56+00:00

Recordings should not be played to the judge if you have a good attorney, especially if taken without your consent or knowledge. There are several evidentiary objections that can be raised to prevent the admission of illegal recordings!

techrmd3 · 2024-10-21T19:05:20+00:00

ok so take a deep breath, family court is not CRIMINAL normally unless you are found in contempt you don't end up in jail. (so be polite to the Judge and court officials and you don't go to jail get it)

Family Court Judges realize that the two parties that are in front of them DONT LIKE EACH OTHER.

So a fair bit of hyperbolic statements saying "other party is Satan like" is pretty much understood.

Your lawyer should have a plan for how they will question you and cross examine your soon to be ex accuser of bad deeds. They should have it written out like a script. For all the allegations in the divorce petition you (yes you) should be asked by your lawyer did you threaten or do XYZ your answer should be NO. Then the opposing counsel gets up there and asks you same, they may try to trick you, but you stick to the story of deny any intent to do anything bad. Any words they have recorded are just that words said in heated non violent argument. That's it

you deny all wrong she accuses you of

do not partially agree, do not partially admit to anything. Firm NO all that is required

and mostly these things will have no impact on a Judges decision.

All of this assumes you have never been arrested and convicted of any bad deed. If you have then the court will be prejudiced against your case due to that fact.

But as long as you are not a convict... you can deny and deny and it's a don't care for the Judge.

First-Bid8895 · 2024-10-21T18:05:39+00:00

Stop worrying. It's done... it is out of your control. You can't undo it. Whatever you have that can prove her in a lie will impact her credibility. Also any lie you are caught in will impact yours. Be as honest as possible but do not volunteer information that could damage you. But be ready for answers to crazy questions especially if you did what she is saying. She might have proof you do not know about. Ur lawyer will in legal jargon explain you were not in a good place mentally (very hurt and angry) and said things you did not mean to say. Something like that. You have to think these judges have heard all kinds of stuff. You are not the first. As long as you can show you are not a threat and she has a history of lying you should be ok.

AssistantActive9529 · 2024-10-21T15:48:58+00:00

Did you talk to a lawyer yet ?

Title	She's lying
Author	ChadSmash72
Upvotes	7
Comments	8
Date	October 21, 2024 2:52 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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