I made the mistake of trying to be amicable and letting her push off on filing so she wouldn't be so stressed as we got this done. Then she introduced her affair partner to my son behind my back. Lost my fucking shit. Said things I shouldn't have said. It's okay though. I documented everything for my lawyer and shes so useless I don't think she will get one. Told my lawyer it was time to file and I just signed the complaint. Don't know how long this is going to take but I hope it isn't long I don't like what this is doing for my emotions