For thos who have read along. About 2.5 months ago I caught my tumor of an ex in another affair. Gave her another shot after finding out 3 years earlier about another one.

She swore she changed. Never again. I stayed for our kid. The same song and dance we hear on here every day.

Well. Since finding out we signed a separation agreement. Split everything 50 50. Let her keep her retirement and she waived alimony.

Well. Since then I did start my new job and absolutely thrilled with this role. I get to start traveling again and with a college age kid, its the perfect timing for this.

Also got a nice perk with my job. Company lease. Got a brand new BMW.

House has sold and closed. Got my equity

A old car accident lawsuit closed and get another nice chunk of change

Moved half way accross the country with my son

My son is setup for college next year. Full ride.

Now when it comes to my cheating ex. In about 11 weeks I went from crying to... Im free.... I'M F'n FREE of that disgusting tumor of a woman.

She still will randomly text me and its so amazing hiw dumb she is.

She got mad that I didnt tell her that I moved already. Saying its "hard to trust you"

Wait? You want to talk about trust? You also dont get to know anything about me anymore

She said I should have told her since my son came and I explained that since hes almost 19... thats between him and her.

Then she goes on to tell me about her grades in school and her plans next year.

Seems like miss... cant keep her legs shut... has no one to talk to.

Guess she is finding out work friends. Are not real friends. And having no family will make for a lonely life.

Id love to rub my 90k free car in her face. My new job that pays double. My amazing free bennefits for work. Me getting to travel all over the world. Heck, even the 4 women i F'd since our seperation... but i wont.

I won't base my happiness on her jealousy or hatred.

Its tempting but the best way forward was what I did yesterday.

I changed my number. Zero reason ever to talk to her again. Its done

She can have a great life. A bad life. A short life. A long life.

I dont care anymore. The opposite of love isn't hate. Its indifference.