Who here was in "Avoidant" relationship?

evidentlynaught · 2026-03-19T04:56:35+00:00

She diagnosed me as avoidant using Tik Tok psychology.

She was anxious attachment and I’m just chill. She let her anxiety ruin my peace of mind too.

upvotersfortruth · 2026-03-18T10:06:42+00:00

just a general comment that "attachment theory" explained A LOT to me

Immediate-Story2562 · 2026-03-18T06:38:33+00:00

I was probably only avoident in the last 3 years.
Feels like I'm now more anxious and I don't trust her at all.
Busy divorcing.
Have you read the book 'Attached'? It devoted a whole chapter on each attachment including avoident.
They said if you are anxious or avoidant, being with a securely attached partner can make you more secure.

QuietlyFunctional · 2026-03-18T04:04:42+00:00

Me! I was/am anxious, she was avoidant. We’re separated and going our own way, but both trying to raise a good human being.

Title	Who here was in "Avoidant" relationship?
Author	manyaktalaga
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	March 18, 2026 4:00 AM UTC (4 months ago)
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