it's been over a month since our separation and we've been co parenting nicely. i did ask her if she's been working on herself? I am recently been going to my "glow up" phase. I also did call her out by reminding her that our separation was because she wants to fix her self. that she better be doing that and not getting into any relationship. that I would be pissed if she did and that basically she lied and thrown away 15 years and ruined our family. she said "I know and my family knows it was my decision and they would hate me" .... I'm starting to like the new me... keep fighting for yourself and kids guys! there is light at the end of the tunnel.