I'm no stranger to issues figuring out your potential mate, figuring out yourself, what you want out of life, if the one you're with is truly 'the one', who is supposed to take out the trash, what's the protocol if one of ya'll catches the feels, what happens if you accidentally fall in love with another person 😱, etc. Red Pill nearly destroyed my marriage to my best friend and did kill many of my friendships and amazing FWBs.

Red Pill ain't it. I swear to fucking God it's not it. I wish I could help ya'll gain experience to make better decisions. I've talked to so many men here, personally, and my God I wish I could take your pain. That's why I come here and try to share my experiences and advice from my perspectives, but I won't reach everyone. I accepted that long ago.

Most of the people that come here ask "what's the alternative?" and truly it's to go back to the basics. Ya'll read all these studies, waste so much time watching these chucklefucks argue back and forth until someone loses frame, bully women online and then simultaneously get upset that they don't want anything to do with you, etc.

Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson is probably one of the best books to help not only my relationship with my Husband, but with my Son, and myself as a woman (and and old partner and I that are still fighting like idiots). It's meant for Men, but it's really good for the ladies too. It helps you learn Men better and why they short circuit around us. It helped me grow into an amazing woman (despite what my haters say).

To those struggling, just disconnect from YouTube and all that shit for as long as it takes to get through the book. You'll come out a different person. Or you could just waste more time giving some grifter more money. Time is valuable. What are you doing with yours?