Being only 5ft pushes me into the dark corridors of Blackpill.

RedPillDetox · 2022-02-23T10:04:58+00:00

I would understand that "It's not over", it's virtually never over unless you're in some absolutely extreme situation, there have been other men in your height that found a girlfriend, just try to do what's possible and what not to achieve that.

2022-02-23T14:22:40+00:00

Work on your confidence! That alone can add height and eventually it's not noticeable!

For reference, in 6'1 female. The shortest person I've ever dated was 5'4. I was worried (I like wearing heels too!) but every time we went somewhere together it was like he was 7ft tall! Nobody could tell him anything, he was so funny and extremely confident in himself (NOT cocky or arrogant). It made all the difference and I rarely noticed the difference in height because of it!

Your height doesn't make you who you are.

cunningcaring · 2022-02-23T13:21:38+00:00

Lots of 4 foot women out there…

Ill_Panda_6563 · 2022-02-23T16:06:33+00:00

My father married a woman 7 inches taller. Don’t give up.

Life is not fair, I understand but use the tools you have. Unless you’re poly, you just have to find one. And definitely open up your options to women much taller than you.

Knave_of_Opossums · 2022-02-23T08:46:08+00:00

Work on your charisma. You're going to have to compensate with a lot of confidence. Any sense that you're insecure about your height is going to make things 1,000,000x worse.

AvalancheReturns · 2022-02-23T13:54:41+00:00

Id realise that my character, unlike my height, was in my control and build that.

salynch · 2022-02-23T18:10:35+00:00

This is kind of not what I’ve seen. I know several dudes who are shorter than the (very hot) women they married.

I know this sounds like pretty basic advice, but idk your age or whatever, so I’ll share this: being comfortable with yourself is the first step to being comfortable socializing around others. The more you fixate on your height, it’ll become like a mental block that you think about during other interactions. If you don’t care about your height, most other people won’t either.

DontTalkAboutBruno1 · 2022-02-23T15:31:08+00:00

Personally I think our society does put too much importance on height for men - Especially when you consider height is something we have NO control over. Try to focus on your character, hobbies, keeping your body and mind healthy, regardless of your height.

Mh882130 · 2022-02-24T01:23:59+00:00

Is it just your height?

Do you think your looks are bad or do you feel like a Manley?

Also have you ever looked into body dysmorphia?

We all have it on some level unless we over came it.

Some things to consider because an illness can warp your perception to the point where you’ll only use confirmation bias.

After considering all these consider this radical thought.

What if when you die, you meet whatever end you think it is and if this end involves a god or talk with your soul you realize as part of trial and learning experience you actually chose the height you chose; your looks, etc.

How would you see and live life differently?

Carloverguy20 · 2022-02-24T02:34:33+00:00

Do you have any other redeeming qualities, such as having a good personality, being a decent person whatnot. There are tons of short people with girlfriends.

Peter Dinklage, Danny Devito all had wives and kids. Manospherians will say; "BUT THEY ARE FAMOUS" i've known regular short guys have girlfriends, wives and kids.

live_long_n_prosper · 2022-02-23T16:31:43+00:00

There are lots of women who don't want kids so they don't prioritize height these days so focus on being a great partner

uhh_spence · 2022-02-23T15:15:55+00:00

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Gaddammitkyle · 2022-02-24T00:58:00+00:00

Grow the fuck up and stop using qualities you can't change as an excuse to wallow in misery. "WAHHHH I don't meet Eugenophilic standards set by a vocal minority of shallow and superficial females, how will I ever go on with life knowing I'll never be what they truly want?"

Every girl has a choice. If they choose to be like the men they hate and pick their mates based solely on superficial qualities and primal ooga-booga dominant alpha traits like height, jaw size and aggressiveness of personality, then they can accept the consequences of such choices. Which usually includes being abandoned during the child-rearing years, being lied to for years on end, having to accept being the 4th / 5th girl in some BrEeDInG bULls lineup, having him get his way using intimidation and dread game tactics, and only getting respect and attention when sex is involved. Such a shit deal being a female in this pseudo-gorilla's lineup, eh?

Becoming a 5 ft redpill shitlord will NOT lead you to the "path of chad". Nothing will lead you to the path of chad besides genetic perfection, because its filled to the brim with eugenophilic perfection-seekers looking to make their shitty friends jealous and look good on social media. It's a dollhouse filled with assholes and cunts who believe their Personas are their real personality, and not a mask they slip on to win the "who is most perfect" game.

The redpill is trying to teach you that this fetid "game" and poisoned sexual marketplace should be something you want to willingly participate in, rejecting all but the most superficially perfect women and expecting betrayal with every outing. Its miserable, why bother dating as a redpill man at all if all these women are supposedly stupid and easy to lead astray?

Maybe its because the sexual marketplace many of these grifters speak of is not worth joining at all. Because it's not filled with the kind of people worth dating, worth loving, worth keeping. It's all about big dicks, nice cars, fat asses, fat wallets, fake eyelashes, long nails, domination, deception, and black aviator shades. Posing on cars, talking about how you never tell a girl you love her, about being the first to break a heart and walk away. It's not reality.

The blackpill isnt you being not good enough to find love, it's you not being good enough to find love in the realm of hookup culture currently infested by assholes and bitches. 5 ft is plenty good in the real world.

AstroDunce · 2022-02-24T16:19:09+00:00

I’m 5’3 and only a few months away from being 21. I get it, you have all these insecurities about yourself being small, you feel like you’re not going to get a girlfriend because of your height, etc.

But dude, there is wayyyy more to our lives than the length of our bodies. There’s so much more to life than getting a girlfriend, there’s more to life than trying to define yourself as a “tough man” that impresses others.

I am in your position, and I have great friends and loving family.

Do I still get insecure about my height sometimes?

Absolutely.

Would I make myself taller given the chance?

No.

Why? Because I realized fixing my height couldn’t fix any of my other problems, if I magically grew to be 6’0 tomorrow, I still couldn’t talk to women, be social, etc.

So I chose to fix the things I could.

Do girls still turn me down because of my height?

Yea! And thats perfectly OK with me. They have a choice and say for their preference, plus if my height really was the only thing holding me back, why would I choose to date someone who cares about that shit when there’s someone better out there?

BeautifulFamiliar225 · 2022-03-19T23:35:42+00:00

Date a tall woman.

000_TheSilencedNuke · 2023-04-30T01:47:30+00:00

There's a lot of wishy-washy-feel-good-blue-pill-bullshit-fantasy-advice you're getting in the comments. I do see why someone as short as you would be more susceptible to becoming black pilled. If you do not meet her physical standards, no amount of game will be able to get her attracted to you. It is possible to get a girlfriend at your height, but it is going to be INCREDIBLY difficult. Here's what you can do, assuming you already have good charisma, confidence, etc...

Get height lengthening surgery.
Go for women shorter than you. Rare, but they do exist. Most women will be 4-6 inches taller than you, FYI. You might have better luck in Asian countries where the women are extremely short.
Screen for women who don't care about height. Yes they do exist, but again, rare. You'll only be able to screen for one if you're putting yourself out there and meeting a lot of women everyday

Title	Being only 5ft pushes me into the dark corridors of Blackpill.
Author	imtooshortt
Upvotes	12
Comments	73
Date	February 23, 2022 6:27 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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