Does a man's value really go up as he ages?

boredbitch2020 · 2021-06-08T07:56:01+00:00

Only if their bank account value goes up. The rest of it is delusion. They are not aging better, they're balding and never took care of their skin. A lot of them stop fitness so what they had going for them before is gone.

In my experience, males making this argument like to use tne 99th percentile of old men as examples. Like Gearge Clooney, first of all idk anyone my age who's attracted to him so there's that. (The Hollywood heartthrobs of my teens have fallen out of favor too. They didn't age well either) But hes still a rarity as far as aging, most men dont age like that. Val Kilmer always comes to mind, dude seriously hit the wall as they say. These dudes think they're aging like George Clooney, but they're not. They're aging like 90% percent of men.

Then there's the Friends reunion special or whatever. It does not appear to me that the men are aging better.

onlyforsex · 2021-06-08T16:02:56+00:00

No, men's bodies, sperm quality, and ability to have erections naturally decline with age (because we are all mere mortals) but what does go up is their ability to buy sex or reproductive access. So if you lacked charisma, or sexual attractiveness or both as a younger man, you will be able to "pay to play" instead when you're older (on average people tend to accumulate wealth but this is not always true either)

hotmama-45 · 2021-06-08T16:50:16+00:00

I grew up in rural Iowa. EVERYONE gets married early there. When I was going to college, everyone was getting engaged. In fact, my 2nd oldest niece JUST got married and I think both of them are only 20? Do you think men at this age have it all figured out? Do you think they have a brilliant career with an investment portfolio? Of course not. You marry for love and then "grow up together". Yes, all my friends that got married young are still happily married 20 years later.

One of the main things that Redpill gets wrong (everything they say is wrong) is that women are interested in a man with a lot of money. Ummm....its 2021. I make my own money and could care less what is in a man's bank account. Of course, I want him to have goals and be successful in whatever he's passionate about. However, I literally don't care if he's making $50,000/yr or $50,000/month. What gets you women is confidence, character, and a sense of humor....you can have these at any age.

Carloverguy20 · 2021-06-07T22:35:08+00:00

There's possibilites if you one, take care of yourself, eat healthy etc, but anyone can increase value in age both men and women. There are men out there who have aged like milk, because they either ate lots of junk food, heavy smokers, drinkers, and look like they are 50 at 30 lol.

Men age like fine wine is a cope in my opinion.

Edit: Balding is not a bad thing, my mistake

WonderingFairy · 2021-06-08T01:18:50+00:00

I am a young woman and wouldn’t want a guy over 10 years older and neither do I want to spend 2 decades as widow in an empty bed. I wouldn’t mind being a nurse for someone I love, but doing so when we also probably still have children to raise or I’m just starting to grow on my careers by default is nuts. If someone truly loved me they shouldn’t okay with this extreme sacrifices either and date someone closer to their age.

Your 20s and early 30s are the best time to find a partner. You start together and evolve together, have both of your first experiences together, can look back on everything you built together. When you’re past that point you lose that experience and you only attract women who see you as a somewhat finished project they can reap benefit from.

If all you care is “get women” and money you will get people equally as superficial as you and will see that as the best part about you instead of who you are. Do you want to be a valuable used tool? Or do you want a meaningful relationship?

bfsauk2220 · 2021-06-08T20:43:06+00:00

No. No. No. Only if you extend these ideas to women as well. It’s rarely said that women ALSO are more mature and more financially successful in their 30s. All this does is give older men a pass to go after younger women. It pressures women to mature faster and settle down so much earlier in life. The pressure put on a 25 year old woman isn’t the same for a 25 year old man. And this is coming from someone who wasn’t even raised conservative.

This isn’t even a red pill issue, it’s a whole society problem as well. We just accepted this idea that women mature faster than men. I think once you hit your twenties, the maturity gap really isn’t drastic. If anything, women are just socialised to mature faster. There are women who are ready to settle down and ready to start a family in their early to mid twenties, but I also would bet a lot of women would have slowed down by even just a few more years if society wasn’t so ageist against women.

Red pill or not, women’s appearances and fertility are insanely valued. We are sold products and procedures to do whatever we can to stay young and fit. Maintaining our appearances takes up a certain amount of mental space, time, and money that it just doesn’t for men. I’d like to see this change, of course, it probably won’t in my lifetime. Ideally, women’s appearances wouldn’t be so commodified and profitable—Think of all the industries that profit off of women’s appearances. But if anything, we should certainly let go of the idea that women peak in their early twenties, while Hollywood props up older men as these silver foxes. It just reinforces age gap relationships. I think if you’re not attracted to people your age, there’s an issue.

Personally, I think we should stick to people within our age range. The age gap can be widened a bit as we get older, but it should never be drastic.

In sum: My main issue is that red pill likes to use this narrative in contrast to women. Red pill weaponises a woman’s fertility years against her. It’s impossible to argue with them though because they will hold onto outdated statistics that basically have them convinced a woman’s eggs are rendered useless and her uterus falls out at age 35. Are there risks? All the time. Do I know a f*ck ton of people born to mothers in their late 30s/early 40s? Yep.

They say women hit their wall at 25 and their looks start going downhill. After 30, you’re just going to be a single old lady your whole life, regretting all those times you “rejected” the “nice guys” in your twenties lol. The man’s value vs woman’s value thing is part of the revenge fantasy sold to red pill men who struggle with dating. I think you can absolutely want a traditional marriage and family life without being red pill.

The idea that a man’s value increases as he ages based on the idea that he’ll be more mature and have more money is pretty harmful in my opinion. It’s setting up these guys to think of relationships in contractual terms, and it’s quite dangerous. It hurts everyone in the process. Money cannot buy an emotional connection. Women are villains if they’re considered gold diggers. Yet in the same breath, these men think if they have money, they can have any woman they want.

Whatever you believe to be your most attractive quality will be the type of people you attract tbh. If you’re a woman who thinks your sex appeal is the winning ticket, you will most likely attract men who only want you for that. Same goes for men who date with their wallets.

PrincessTeex · 2021-06-08T04:49:13+00:00

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tjohnson718 · 2021-06-08T18:06:18+00:00

I agree with the "As long as his bank account is good...he'll age well" posts. A man's value generally appreciates as he attains more of the resources that women desire from men. Not just money, but maturity, leadership skills, confidence level, etc. It just so happens that it takes much longer for men to achieve this so many older men end up having the edge over younger men because of this.

BigDaddyG632 · 2021-06-08T18:54:18+00:00

It's not just the bank, muscle takes years to develop. Money is more so about status and a show of competence and just used to have fun, as well as a more mature and stable outlook on life and woman. So we improve in every way with time, financially, physique wise and obviously just learning what a woman wants to hear

Similar-Exam4498 · 2024-10-15T17:17:23+00:00

It’s the undesirable men that are not selected by women their age. They end up going for women that only use them for their money and resources but eventually leave them or cheat on them. Women prefer attraction over money

RedPillDetox · 2021-06-08T09:33:30+00:00

It get's better and better if you're working on yourself, actually have a decent job, etc. Which is not the case for a good chunk of them. Also, it only get's better within your own age range, on which as you age the dating pool shrinks, but since women prefer to date slighlty older men, men have access to younger women, while women don't have access to the increasingly hitched older men, and have to turn to men their own age or younger, which have a bit more options, hence facing a bit more of competition.

lynn181 · 2021-06-08T18:39:47+00:00

I get kinda icked out by using terms like 'value' to describe 'how easy it might be to bang immature young women through money and control'. Humans have value outside of their looks and wallets. I also agree with most of the previous comments. Some men might 'age well' (re: look younger than they are) but most age normally.

Most people are attracted to and date people in their own age range. There are rare exceptions, of course, but they're not the rule. Most young 20s girls don't want to date men in their 40s. Oh, I know, you might have an anecdote to the contrary, but that's an exception. I know a guy who briefly dated a rich 43 year old woman when he was 22. That's not the norm, obviously. She was shallow and he enjoyed being bought stuff. I'm not saying that's wrong, but it is kind of...lacking anything meaningful.

As you age, most people do acquire more wealth, and of course most acquire life experience. This can make you more easily able to converse, less afraid of rejection, and more confident in your body. These are generally positive traits for all human beings. But there's really no guarantee that you'll 'look good'. And hopefully you gain enough wisdom to know that there are more important things than "getting" younger women. I would hope that a man at 40+ would have learned how to value true companionship over 'dur hur college pussy hot'. If he hasn't I would count that as a pretty big flaw.

Most of the time, you will have more meaningful relationships and better sex with people near your own age who can relate to you and connect with you.

JUST_WANTTOBEHAPPY · 2021-06-11T04:49:57+00:00

as long as you take care of yourself, man and woman alike , your value will go up.

I have find woman in their 40's irresistible attractive cause she workout and take care of themselves . Same goes to man

MatingAdvice · 2021-06-13T01:04:13+00:00

Not if you do nothing.

If you keep improving body, mind, career and status, value rises, yes.

Title	Does a man's value really go up as he ages?
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Date	June 7, 2021 10:07 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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