Falling down the Red Pill hole... why should I stop?

xvszero · 2026-01-25T20:29:25+00:00

What exactly is red pill telling you that makes you feel better? Because it sounds like you're about to throw away something that may (or may not, we don't know) work out because of all of this red pill shit you're ingesting.

Cheating doesn't really make anyone happy unless they are a sociopath, but also... who are you planning on cheating with if you think no one wants you?

TAKEitTOrCIRCLEJERK · 2026-01-25T20:34:44+00:00

brother, go meet her and have a good time.

why wouldn't you do that?

nephastha · 2026-01-25T20:40:11+00:00

Stop classifying people as low value, high value blablabla that's all bullshit and not a healthy way to see the world

True-Medium9046 · 2026-01-25T20:38:56+00:00

I’m a 6ft tall woman and my bf is 5’8! It’s so much more about who you are and how you treat women :)

whos_a_slinky · 2026-01-25T20:32:58+00:00

Vulnerability is scary, you'll never know if a relationship will work out. But you can rest assured you'll never be happy if you resolve yourself to self-hate.

GuideDisastrous7365 · 2026-01-25T20:40:08+00:00

I think you are getting in your own way. You describe her low self esteem as clouding her own judgement about herself. Yet, your post is dripping of low self esteem and you think you have a clear view. You don’t.

Jthemovienerd · 2026-01-25T20:58:28+00:00

You are telling yourself that she is settling for you. You have no evidence to the contrary. Every single thing you listed, there is nothing bad about it. You are telling yourself it's bad. You are convincing yourself you are not worth it. And the red pill hole is telling you to think that way. All of it is wrong. All of it. Please, please, please stop listening to all of that crap. Please. You are scared, and that is fine. That is normal. You don't know what direction to go in, so you are worried. It's normal. Take each step as they come, and do not focus on the negative things that come up in your head. Everything that you listed here, break them down, and think of good reasons.

youalreadyknow07 · 2026-01-26T01:41:15+00:00

What do you like about your girlfriend? Why do you want to be with her?

Personal_Dirt3089 · 2026-01-25T20:59:36+00:00

Because the red pill does not work. "I have gas. Why shouldn't I drink cooking oil?"

Flourescendrama · 2026-01-25T21:05:52+00:00

Don't even think about it. I'm getting off the hook, I'm young, and I assure you they're wrong. You're valuable, and that woman loves you for who you are, don't waste this opportunity.

miyaloaf · 2026-01-27T02:15:29+00:00

I’m a woman in a really healthy relationship and posts like these are genuinely so baffling to me. Like, you do realize that the reason you’ve labeled yourself “low value” is BECAUSE of red pill, right? Nobody in the real world is hung up on arbitrary classifications of “high value,” “low value,” or whatever other words you red pill men assign each other. Also, as upset as you are on having no sexual experience, I can guarantee that your girlfriend does not care. Women in general are less concerned with the sexual histories of their partners than men are, and the people perpetuating the notion that it’s something to be insecure about are usually other men. You also have this strange dichotomy between obvious insecurity and low self-esteem, and a massive but fragile ego. You have a girlfriend who’s supportive and reassuring, but you somehow feel entitled to cheat on her? Because it would make YOU feel better? For a self-described “low value man,” you’re also mighty confident that you could even find women to cheat with.

You should leave redpill because the concept that you’re “worthless” is a narrative being pushed by other men in that community, not women. I would very strongly encourage you to seek out platonic friendships with women if possible. I think you’ll quickly discover that most women are largely unconcerned about sex, and you can have meaningful relationships with them that don’t involve your sexuality whatsoever.

senorbuzz · 2026-01-25T21:00:51+00:00

Are you unemployed because of your disability?

ConsultJimMoriarty · 2026-01-25T20:39:51+00:00

Redpill nonsense will just make you feel worse about your self and be bitter and hateful to everyone.

You’ll end up alone and the only other people that will be able stand you for more than five minutes are other miserable redpill fools.

Do you want to be a crab in a bucket? Because that’s your future if you keep down this path.

GoalDull4985 · 2026-01-26T04:27:39+00:00

Dude, you should go to a fucking therapist already because you sound fucked!!!

You have a girlfriend who loves you and wants to move across the country just to be with you, but your only takeaway is that she has a "very low self-esteem" and you want to cheat on her and also break up with her. You seriously need psychiatric help...

Extreme-Struggle3665 · 2026-01-26T21:58:58+00:00

It's not the redpill who will teach you masculinity but reading about great men will be, you don't need redpill to tell you that you should workout you should make money that brings you the lifestyle you want those things are basic unless you had a lot of trauma your brain didn't work with you to succeed it just survived

MaverisStranger · 2026-01-25T21:24:49+00:00

You have a GF who says she loves you and you're projecting your insecurities on her snd hate women because....? You sound illogical and irrational. So, sure go the red pill way, then. Dump her and let her be with someone else, I agree.

Title	Falling down the Red Pill hole... why should I stop?
Author	ThrowawayIdler
Upvotes	0
Comments	57
Date	January 25, 2026 8:22 PM UTC (6 months ago)
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