The red pill makes relationships sound extremely unappealing.

JUMPsuperstar · 2022-02-11T01:57:58+00:00

TRP dehumanizes women to the point of making any man distrust them. It is inherently toxic.

Aurelius-chfn09a · 2022-02-11T03:50:24+00:00

I get the impression that red pill men have been burned once too often by women in the past, so they've concluded that the only thing of value that a woman provides is sex.

unlivedbread · 2022-02-11T06:22:03+00:00

TRP types see relationships generally as something intertwined fundamentally with the ego. When in reality, generally most relationships I've seen start off with two people knowing each other for a while and deciding that they like each other and they go from there, no jealousy, no insecurity. They were happy before but they're happier now.

Unfortunately most red pilled males unconsciously see relationships as narcissistic source. And it shows in how they describe them with such coldness and distain

idontreallyknow5575 · 2022-02-11T01:56:42+00:00

They are miserable and unable to get women (I wonder why..) and they want other men to be too so they don't feel alone. Men, don't take the bait. Crabs in a barrel mentality. They are the epitome of misery loves company. As awful as their community is to women, they are even worse for men.

creamerfam5 · 2022-02-11T01:04:18+00:00

That has always confused me about redpill. FDS has it's own problems but the goal is to stay away from the ones they think are the bad apples. Redpill is like "they're all bad apples but here's how you psychologically manipulate them into fucking you."

medlabunicorn · 2022-02-11T06:01:01+00:00

This is an important question, and it’s why many women long for the day someone will invent a sex robot and get these men’s focus away from actual human women. The men should be happy, too: a robot can be programmed to never stray, will never grow old, can be updated with new hair or face or complexion as a man’s tastes change, is not interested in a man’s ability to contribute to the relationship in any way, etc.

AssignmentWest7267 · 2022-02-11T16:20:07+00:00

I have been feeling this way for a few months. Watching red pill content has put me into a mild depression. I have so much fear about dating. I want to be a wife and a mother so bad but I can’t build the courage to put myself out there.

Mriconicdev · 2022-02-10T23:58:46+00:00

Yeah too much generalizing. I like to watch some of the self improvement part of the content but some channels are too crazy. Guys that haven’t gotten over their past trauma or can’t get the women they want.

n0name1026 · 2022-02-11T21:05:41+00:00

Negative emotions tend to be more addictive than positive ones. By tapping into your fears and anxiety you're more likely to consume the product. It's basically the Facebook strategy. Showing you more things that will inspire mistrust and negative emotion leads to more engagement with the platform.

A redpill relationship just becomes exhausting. You have to constantly act with the belief in mind that your partner is actively looking for a more dominant man than you and so you have to continuously remind her in covert and overt ways that you have 'options' you have to keep them thinking that if they leave you, they will never find someone as good as you. Its a depressing way to live where you constantly have to be this character or else you'll suffer in your love life. It demands a level of ambient and active anxiety with both parties.

Different-Item-7994 · 2022-02-11T05:35:04+00:00

Redpill men are not trying hard to date women. That would be a simp according to TRP. TRP describes the worst possible ways a woman can be, in order to deter them from a relationship. Its like a cost/benefit analysis approach to a relationship, and usually ends in a 'cringe' feeling for the man, to not even bother. However if its love, a man is looking for, then a cost/benefit trp approach is not gonna work. Find balance for your own sake, aside from what anyone here or from trp has to say.

2022-02-13T23:20:28+00:00

On the flip side, it's so wide spread that a LOT of women aren't even bothering with dating anymore. What's the point when you're just going to get lied to and manipulated, coerced into sex or worse, raped because some random guy thinks he deserves it because he was "nice" or treated you nicely... there's really no point for a lot of women!

And it's sad when these same RP men are looking at that as evidence, like "see! She just wants a guy to buy her things and treat her like shit." Completely unaware and don't really care that THEY are perpetuating their own cycles of loneliness.
And because they are completely unaware and unable to take accountability, the onus is put back on the women to prove their RP worldview wrong and show them somethingdifferent. Not on them, the "alphas" to even THINK about changing for themselves! Then you rinse, repeat and add more entitlement until it gets to the point of no return, sometimes attacking.

Substantial_Zone_628 · 2022-02-11T17:02:40+00:00

I thought I was the only one. Those men don't claim to be incels but they sound like ones and creating others which is kinda scary.

pekkauser · 2022-02-11T16:56:53+00:00

Yeah, I’ve always wanted to have a relationship where I can embrace the other, talk about or feelings, share and enjoy interests, show love physically and through words, etc but the redpill for some reason says it’s “not masculine” to do that and you have to be dominant, possessive, uncaring, and mysterious. And if you don’t she will cheat on you or leave you for the “Chad”. I’m like, “that’s not who I am, if I have to be that way to be in a relationship I’d rather be celibate the rest of my life”.

Title	The red pill makes relationships sound extremely unappealing.
Author	SuperSpikey2748
Upvotes	78
Comments	25
Date	February 10, 2022 11:40 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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