What does TRP get right - if anything?

vial_of_music · 2020-06-26T02:10:51+00:00

they get basic common knowledge. like yeah dude, get out of your basement and stop watching so much porn. get to the gym. start eating right. live for yourself. do things for you and only you. they can say all of these things without the deep misogynistic vibes and hating women trends.

HeartbreakHotline · 2020-06-26T02:09:28+00:00

Self Improvement and not being a doormat, but at what cost? Bitterness about life, fear and well, handicapping your relationships massively

dirtyhappythoughts · 2020-06-26T04:03:14+00:00

The basics of any self-improvement. Not being a doormat is obvious. Starting a good workout does a lot of good things, ironically not much for dating but rather overall health and discipline. Basic dating advice like not putting people on a pedestal is also very good.

In general TRP gets a lot right, but those things can also be found in other self-improvement strategies that lack the misogynistic anti-equality ideas TRP has.

CrasaeTheGreat · 2020-06-26T04:33:21+00:00

The fact that there are bad women out there just like there are bad men.

niceguycoach · 2020-06-26T02:04:36+00:00

I'm biased against TRP. But I think that a lot of guys benefit from learning to be more assertive from TRP, but that's about it. Anything a guy can do to learn to set boundaries and ask for what he wants in relationship is helpful. Also learning to not settle for a bad relationship is critical too.

BCRE8TVE · 2020-06-26T13:25:52+00:00

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Carloverguy20 · 2020-06-26T19:39:24+00:00

I do agree with them saying, get on your purpose, go to the gym, make new friends, explore the world, save enough money, hang out with the right crowd, stop watching too much porn, and that its okay to be alone sometimes and relationships aren't everything. I used to watch some RP coaches. I wouldn't say these are exclusively "RedPill advices" but more life advices though. I disagree with the AWALT types of Redpillers, BlackPillers, Mgtowers and Incels. I disagree that "Women only like men for money" "Women only want chad and tyrone" "Women and men aren't friends" and "Women don't like average men and want 10/10 men" those types promote misogyny in the community and i can't agree with them on it, because i have lots of good female friends in my life, and i've seen average joes get women.

BCRE8TVE · 2020-06-26T23:55:02+00:00

Women typically date men that are taller, richer, stronger, and/or more educated than them.

Looks do matter.

There are differences in the way men and women typically communicate, love one another, and show that love.

Work on yourself and improve yourself.

Stop pedestalizing women, they are not the prize, you are, in the sense that you should not try to find a partner you think is beautiful, you should be finding a partner that matches well with you.

Telling people to watch for red flags rather than being oblivious to them. The only thing they get wrong is that men have red flags as well, so it's not something unique to women.

Be more assertive and set boundaries that are healthy for you. Find someone who will be a complement to your life, not the focus of it.

Go with no relationship instead of settling for a bad relationship, because you deserve better.

Tesrali · 2020-06-27T02:03:24+00:00

Basically everything without the toxic self-pity. Life is not fair and don't worry too much about changing it. Show up to a protest and vote when you can, but don't think about politics too much.

Life is about winning. Not complaining about how its not fair.

I_like_the_word_MUFF · 2020-06-26T13:09:54+00:00

I think that encouraging young people to date a lot of different people for a length of time, instead of committing to one person right out of the gate is a good idea.

Unfortunately they use that same belief to beat women over the head with regarding body counts. Complaining endlessly about over sexualized women as is these guys are too meek to admit it scares them because they see it as competing against a woman's past.

Getting to know a lot of different people intimately, if not sexually, is great for building a well rounded perspective and adds to your character. It doesn't matter if your male or female. It makes you realize that you can't judge somebody from the outside if you don't understand what's going on in their head.

fakeaccount687 · 2020-06-26T21:35:03+00:00

Relationships/love are transactional. Women are hypergamous, they dont love the same way men do. Looks do matter. Self improvement is key to a better life.

Big_Dick_Capitalist · 2020-06-26T04:06:47+00:00

That both SMV and LMS are relevant in dating.

wretched_skillz · 2020-06-26T07:08:57+00:00

men and women are different

Title	What does TRP get right - if anything?
Author	VdSteel
Upvotes	11
Comments	40
Date	June 25, 2020 11:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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