why so much age shaming for older guys?

bee_ghoul · 2021-11-24T22:27:42+00:00

Hello again. I assume you’re referring to my comment where I was talking about how creepy men in their forties try to talk to me a twenty year old? You responded saying that I just didn’t like them because they’re bald.

You then ignored my response where I said that I didn’t turn a creepy older man down because he was bald but because he was a creepy man double my age who was old enough to be my father.

If a 34 year old man spoke to me because he was a friend of a friend and he was normal and not creepy I wouldn’t say anything. And I wasn’t talking about men like that in the comment that I left.

No one said that you’re a pedophile.

If you’re going up to girls who are young enough to be your daughter and flirting with them then you are a pervert as I said. Not what you’re implying I said.

UggggghhhhPfff · 2021-11-24T20:39:19+00:00

It's only creepy if you're trying to fuck 'em. I'm in plenty of mixed-age, mixed-gender social groups.

The only guys who get labeled creeps in my groups are the ones who are trying to get all up in much younger women's dms, starting sexual or borderline-sexual conversations, offering massages or being very touchy, etc. Standard creep stuff.

Go out, have fun, keep the flirting for age-appropriate women and you'll be fine!

EntertainmentNeat592 · 2021-11-24T21:04:01+00:00

There is no “age shaming” happening for older guys. It’s only older men with creepy fixation toward young women that insist young women find them attractive too gets called out for their delusion. These men makes young women uncomfortable and think older women are somehow “jealous” of it even though older women would probably not touch with them ten foot pole anyway.

I talk to men and women of any age, I never seen anyone older men get shamed for being talking to young women as long as they were not hitting on them. It seems you are projecting a fear you hold rather than something you actually experienced.

juliuspepperwoodchi · 2021-11-24T20:18:54+00:00

I'm 34 and often when I go to clubs, talk with women in the 20 - 28 range.

What do you mean? Do you ask their ages like, up front? That's kinda weird. If you're basing this off looks, you'll probably be surprised you're not as good a guess of womens' ages as you think.

99% of the time is just talking with friends of firends of mine, I mean talking with the goal to form friendships and human bonds. I'm a creepy pedophile?

No, who said that? I mean, again, if you're actively seeking younger women because they are younger and if a woman you think is attractive is no longer attractive to you because you find out they aren't in their early 20s or younger...yeah, you should PROBABLY talk to someone about that and get to the root of it, but if you're not asking their ages and actively factoring in how young a woman is or thinking "ooh, she looks YOUNG, I should hit on HER", you're probably not a pedo for thinking that attractive young women are, indeed, attractive.

Should I bury me at home watching netflix and watching my life pass me?

Definitely not what I'd recommend.

xvszero · 2021-11-24T20:37:55+00:00

Who is shaming you for this? Is this happening in reality or are you just worried it might be?

Also, do you talk to women in the 29-40 range too?

luridlurker · 2021-11-24T20:25:38+00:00

By clubs do you mean like night clubs? Or do you mean like hiking/book/hobby clubs?

If it's nightclubs, that seems... counterproductive. Can't say I've had a lot of quality get-to-know-each-other conversations while shouting over music.

vcreativ · 2021-11-25T19:53:05+00:00

I mean talking with the goal to form friendships and human bonds. I'm a creepy pedophile?

Lol, no, relax.

If you're talking to someone solely because they're young, specifically not an adult because that turns you on in the sense of you wanting to have some sort of sex with them for that reason, then you're a pedophile.

But that's not at all what you're describing here.

It's perfectly fine to talk to an adult that you're attracted to, even if they're younger than you. In your case (34), I'd take it easy with anyone sub 25 even if they're interested, you'd be at very different points in your lives.

But all this can be navigated by getting to know the other properly before hopping into bed with them. Which I remain is a good shout at any age.

Should I bury me at home watching netflix and watching my life pass me?

I think it's fine to have those days, too, but it's clearly not a viable strategy for life.

Ok-Goose7939 · 2021-11-25T08:21:07+00:00

It is quite difficult to have any understanding with people much younger than you , you have different experience and understanding , besides , a lot of men want a " young elastic pussy " and there are girls like kept women who , in exchange for the benefits of a man , give him sex and the rest . It 's like a contract .

heytheredelilah91 · 2021-11-24T20:08:50+00:00

"Half your age plus 7" and you'll be fine bro

Gmed66 · 2021-11-26T04:04:07+00:00

Ask yourself this, does age shaming happen to good looking men? Or just to men who aren't conventionally attractive? Hint: It doesn't happen to good looking guys.

IllPractice9354 · 2021-12-04T23:21:29+00:00

These girls are probably married or in a relationship with some guy close to their age who respects them especially if they are much younger than you. Don't be surprised if these guys go after you. Young men do not tolerate older men talking to women close to their age. Older men are also the same thing with younger men talking to women close to their age as well. It goes both ways.

redpillsforwomen · 2021-12-15T11:58:39+00:00

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Title	why so much age shaming for older guys?
Author	ventre_di_cocomero
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Date	November 24, 2021 8:05 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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