A L A R M B E L L S

mythicalnebula · 2020-06-24T23:30:50+00:00

bruh. HE is the common denominator. can he not see he is problem ?

Bovvsette · 2020-06-24T23:38:28+00:00

”Crazy bitches”, ”a pattern”? Okay, scrote, what did you do to these poor women?

He sounds like those people who say ”I hate drama” despite always being the one to cause it.

DallasOMalley · 2020-06-25T00:35:32+00:00

Every man I know whose dating history is littered with crazy exes is also a disaster of a human who would drive anyone crazy. No exceptions.

Howslap · 2020-06-25T01:18:18+00:00

Hmmm because I was done with dating nvm and lvm I had to consider all the possible reasons that was always my outcome. I knew that men are trash wasn’t the only issue.

I looked at myself. The key problem was that I dated men to date men. There was usually no chemistry and for most of them I had no real physical attraction. I was totally see where it goes hopeful that lightning would strike. And then the ugly and the bad would curdle the connection dead.

I was semi selective with standards - but was living in the “give him a chance” dating fantasy. And I believed it was a numbers game -that if I continued running through icky men that finally, one day I would find THe OnE.

My takeaway that changed my life is dating multiple men that you don’t really like physically, emotionally and intellectually guarantees poor results. And dating lots of them is a sad way to spend time because it creates core emotions that trigger cascades of fallout that just reinforces men are trash which is a self defeating attitude that will not change my results.

So I imagine that this guy is like nearly all men. He swipes indiscriminately, pursues women for sex, is open to any kind of thing with any type of woman because she will allow it.

Gee, Chad your bottom feeder standards and take what you can get tactics got you all CRaZy WoMEn so now you believe all women are crazy but are still actively and prolifically dating?

Chadwick has created a Groundhog Day crazy woman factory, poisoning his own life and guaranteeing a permasingle outcome. I see child support in his future.

Men are programmed to reactive emotional behavior from an entitlement belief that if they feel something it must be true and acted upon- no examination necessary. This is a huge barrier to personal responsibility and accountability. Chad is blind that he’s fertilizing “crazy” with his own bs because he’s unable to take ownership of his actions that created his results.

Sadly, this is the majority of men especially OLD. Delusional with confirmation bias built systematic beliefs that women are equivalently just as bad if not worse than them. Since women are terrible - they feel righteously encouraged to put their worst foot forward because WOmEn BE CraZy. They cannot see that they shit their own nest.

DoeEyedBrownSkin · 2020-06-25T02:38:59+00:00

If this was me:

1) I would have unmatched after “bitches”. The audacity.

2) there would be no “lol”, “😂” or “lmfao”. These seem like nervous laughs or softening your words.

Never be afraid to offend these insignificant abominations.

2340000 · 2020-06-25T01:05:58+00:00

Cut it off at the root.. As soon as he starts with the b.s., block him! You don't have to be nice. You don't have to laugh it off.

Any man who refers to women as "crazy" and bi××××× is a misogynistic, goldbrick.

elementalvirago · 2020-06-25T01:36:41+00:00

It's just like the quote says:

"Men who tell you they have a crazy ex are saying they have at least one confirmed victim."

BusinessPrint1 · 2020-06-25T02:52:46+00:00

Dude I probably fall into the "became crazy after a couple dates" category as per my last "relationship", which was *because* he slept with me, dumped me, came back, ghosted me again, then bread crumbed me for another 3 months just enough to where it drove me insane to not know what we were to each other. He kept me hung up just enough to think that he might want to eventually date me, then would turn everything around on me and pull the "why the hell are you acting like that" card. Turns out he was doing that to a couple women.

munissa · 2020-06-25T03:09:58+00:00

He saw a pattern because he caused it.

lemon_hearts · 2020-06-25T03:01:19+00:00

How defensive he got about this question directly correlates to how guilty he is

OrchidLion · 2020-06-25T02:14:31+00:00

Lmfao asking the right questions

loudest_gusset · 2020-06-25T10:54:21+00:00

Most people have had a crazy ex, maybe two if you're unlucky. I had one who was legitimately crazy: full blown delusions, bit a chunk of a hotel clerk's finger off, assaulted the arresting officer, and spent over a month in a psychiatric ward sedated. The crazy wasn't malicious or intentional because mental illness, but me referring to him as my crazy ex is done rightfully so.

But when every ex is suddenly crazy for simply getting tired of your BS and holding it in until they just can't hold it in anymore--maybe YOU'RE the crazy one.

PicklesNBacon · 2020-06-25T02:16:56+00:00

I’d love to see his response!

nymphaetamine · 2020-06-25T14:15:10+00:00

"crazy bitches" usually means "I treated her like shit and cheated, and she had the gall to get mad about it" Usually you have to date someone for a while before it becomes clear why all their past relationships failed. This one let you know up front lol.

Title	A L A R M B E L L S
Author	throwaway1456738
Upvotes	336
Comments	20
Date	June 24, 2020 11:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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