After exchanging hello’s/pleasantries, this is the first message I received from the guy (technically his second message)..Am I overly sensitive in finding it a sign of a LVM?

Icchy24 · 2020-09-22T16:21:39+00:00

Its weird because he's focused on your looks right off the bat. You are more than how you appear

Trust your gut. He is a LVM

werker115 · 2020-09-22T16:24:07+00:00

No, I personally think that you're not being overly sensitive. That's your women's intuition telling you to be weary.

I'm reading it, and I feel creeped out--and I'm not the one talking to him. He sounds like he's damned wolf salivating over prey, that he's eyeing.

Yes, he's objectifying you. Yes, he doesn't care to get to know you--that is, your true value and qualities underneathe your images. Is that the only reason he's talking to you? Because of your pictures? That's a good question to ask yourself.

Definitely a Low Value Male. They lead with their dicks.

Edit: Anytime you feel uncomfortable, or that intuitive pull in your gut. Trust it. The women's intuition is never wrong. When a man makes you feel uncertain, unsure, or unsafe... he's a LVM.

werker115 · 2020-09-22T16:39:05+00:00

I saw negging. What do you mean it’s different? Like how? Oh but thanks im soooo glad you like my physical appearance. Bye

Ms_Tilly · 2020-09-22T16:39:10+00:00

It's too soon for that type of message. Keep trusting your gut.

DadaExperiment · 2020-09-22T16:24:25+00:00

Sounds like a copy and paste PUA line.

veruscka · 2020-09-22T16:50:05+00:00

He sounds sooo smarmy

werker115 · 2020-09-22T17:07:45+00:00

This type of thing reminds me how men are paranoid about pics. They are scared to be "catfished". Saying "I would like to see you in person" seems to be a neg to say that you might not look like your pics and he wants to verify if he's right or not.

basicbagels · 2020-09-22T17:33:25+00:00

Sounds like he’s negging you and trying to say your pics are inconsistent. He’s a loser. Unmatch and block!

Hahane · 2020-09-22T17:24:27+00:00

It sounds to me like he might be into a role play. Trust your gut, sis.

fwe23rrs · 2020-09-22T16:52:28+00:00

I wouldn’t personally write him off. If you like switching up your hair/makeup/outfits, it’s nice that he notices the effort. I don’t think it would hurt to exchange a few more messages just to see what he’s about.

seraphinelysion · 2020-09-22T17:54:20+00:00

It sounds like he's trying to give you a compliment but in the weirdest, most awkward way possible. I don't have enough context to say whether this alone is a red flag or not. Only you know the full story and only you can judge that.

Title	After exchanging hello’s/pleasantries, this is the first message I received from the guy (technically his second message)..Am I overly sensitive in finding it a sign of a LVM?
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Date	September 22, 2020 4:10 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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