So I have a male coworker that at first I thought was cute so I expressed a little interest. After that he pretty much shit talked me to all of my coworkers and told them I was “obsessed with him” and other narcissistic shit. A couple weeks go by, and he told one of my coworkers that he felt like an ass and that we were friends now. Okay cool, I’m a forgiving person so I was like okay I’ll glad that’s past us. Today, he was COMPLETELY disrespecting me in the workplace (mansplaining my job to me that I MAKE MORE MONEY AT AND HAVE BEEN WORKING AT LONGER, ripping computers and shit out of my hands while I’m using them, etc) and is acting like he’s my friend to my face and then talks complete narcissistic shit behind my back to my other coworkers. I am a few years younger than him and female, and I believe that to be part of why he’s treating me like this. I’m not really a “feminist” but I’ve never been treated this disrespectfully by a man in the workplace before. It makes it harder for me to think that there are good ones out there; all of the men in my life haven’t been the best (many of my family members were drunks and my father was never there) and I just wish that I could be treated with the same respect that I put out.