Dear men, when we state our wants and needs…

understatedalways · 2021-01-21T17:03:30+00:00

I just don’t understand why men on Reddit get so up in arms over what women on here want. They want certain types of women as evidenced over and over by the stuff they write, and you don’t see us caring or whining about it.

Mulkvistee · 2021-01-21T18:02:24+00:00

It's really that simple.

They're playing stupid and acting like rejection is violence though for one big reason: FDS is actively poaching and rehabbing the pickmeishas they're so eager to violate, drain financially, traumatize, and discard or have a breathplay "accident" with without a single care.

Get used to it scrotes. The war isn't on your wallet or your unimpressive peen. It's on limiting your access to women you intend to use, mistreat, or kill in the only meaningful way: getting the word out that women deserve better and if men simply can't deal with that single is a very fulfilling life.

Sit back, relax, and watch the subscriber count go up along with your blood pressure 💕

Striking_Play_1393 · 2021-01-21T18:25:57+00:00

That's what I keep wondering 🤷🏼‍♀️ And I am in a relationship with a guy that meets my standards so no it's not impossible in this day and age to get dates that are planned and paid for, flowers, thoughtful gifts, no porn addiction, faithfulness, exclusivity... you know all those things LVM say we don't deserve.

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-01-21T16:55:38+00:00

The tea, sis ☕

MySonderStory · 2021-01-21T19:19:33+00:00

Those type of men who get so heated and exhibit real hatred when they trash talk FDS in other subs are looking for a specific type of woman that FDS women do not represent. The fundamental empowerment movement goes against the type of woman they're used to and looking for, hence they're lashing out.

Whether consciously or on a subconscious level, they're afraid that one day collectively all women will wake up and suddenly decide we won't tolerate subpar treatment and all men will need to step up because they can no longer control or manipulate. They have an agenda, but fail to realize that for us, those men are not on our radar at all, we're not here to prove them otherwise. Rather, we're filtering them out so that we can focus on ourselves and actually keep real genuine HVM in our lives.

veniphyl · 2021-01-21T20:20:59+00:00

Exactly. They also don't want other men to be up to our standard as well. They just can't stand it. How pathetic.

Ngwanuza · 2021-01-21T17:06:35+00:00

BIG FACTS!!!

IDontAgreeSorry · 2021-01-21T23:29:00+00:00

Seriously. We’re not forcing you to do anything. We’re saying if you want our (romantic) company, you have to live up to our standards and boundaries. If those standards aren’t your thing, ok, that’s awesome! Go date someone with standards closer to your own. Easy. But we have just as much of a right to choose our standards and dealbreakers and who we find suitable enough for ourselves. I have no issue being single and don’t need a relationship at all, so if I’m going to enter a relationship it has to live up to my wants. All of them.

AcctJustForMe · 2021-01-21T17:51:40+00:00

They don't give a fuck. They just want to bother every woman because they know their relevance is dying as creatures whose only purpose is to produce sperm. When no one wants their sperm they know they might as well be in a trash can. That's why they bother us, even if they hate us, because any attention is good. Women are able to ignore because we know we're not as expendable. Thanks for coming to TEDx

Title	Dear men, when we state our wants and needs…
Author	weekend111
Upvotes	498
Comments	21
Date	January 21, 2021 2:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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