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[–]AyemHerselfFDS Disciple50 points51 points52 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The disturbing thing about this is her boyfriend dismisses her feelings and puts his nationalism over her very real safety concerns.
[–]vsgupte007FDS Newbie[S] 22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah exactly. I mean I would dump him over that alone if it were me. It sounds like she knows this too but she's trying to talk herself into moving just because her brother's there.
[–]_linayFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What in the clusterfuck did I just read?! 😟 And she really HAS to ask! Girl GTFO, like yesterday! It hurts me to see emotions cloud the clearest of decisions. I’m just saying, sometimes you need to tell your emotions to shut the hell up and keep it pushing. I can’t with this post, all sorts of triggered.
[–]delicateearthbabeFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The reasons she has that she's the one to move are still no reasons. Okay, cool, but none of that explains why he can't move. He can just get a new job.
[–]jewdy09Pickmeisha™️10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The only thing that matters in this calculus is that the people in his country treat her like a sideshow freak and it sounds like it’s only a matter of time before someone does more to her than harassment. It’s a no.
[–]delicateearthbabeFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's a no all over, this much is clear. I just choose to comment only on her reasoning as why the guy is apparently not able to move because he definitly is.
[–]extraacct1234Ruthless Strategist9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I lived for a year in a country where I got harassed and followed by men constantly. I stopped going out alone too eventually. My shitbag abusive narc boyfriend mocked me like I was just some little weak idiot for not wanting to get attacked. I was actually attacked several times. Instead of helping and protecting me he tried to make me feel small and weak. So many things about that guy that were LVM traits.
One time I had to pass two army trucks full of men, about 50 all together, I got screamed and harassed by all 50 men. Even better those men were known to regularly rape and abduct women! My boyfriend had refused to walk with me down the street to the store. At the same time that all 50 of those disgusting men were losing their minds the men on the street that were wearing suits and looked like decent people were eyeing me like they would like to rape me too. Not one person to help me if u was attacked. Nasty perverts.
[–]yourfavoritezoomerFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Is that Eastern Europe? Sounds like Eastern Europe
[–]vsgupte007FDS Newbie[S] 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Japan
[–]yourfavoritezoomerFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For real? Eww I knew they were secluded but didn't think they'd stoop to physical violence. Not entirely surprised though: they even treat Japanese women like objects
[–]Goddess422FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yep. I figured that she must be talking about one of the far East Asian countries. Her experience is identical to mine as a black woman who did study abroad in Korea.
[–]v4g1n4everFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I saw a reddit video post recently where a black woman was taking a train in remote China with a friend and the whole train car full of people were just staring at them pointedly. It was creepy.
[–]whoooodattFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My guess would have been India.
[–]vsgupte007FDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Heh, I live there and that wouldn't have been far from the truth.
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow really? Is this woman black or white or...? Didn't know Japan could be like that.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never move for a guy unless he's your loving devoted husband in which case he'll come to you
[–]responsiblenaturesPickmeisha™️0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then don't go.
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