Do you think hate mail directed at FDS members is an indication that we're doing something right?

MarbleWorld · 2021-03-22T15:33:17+00:00

Of course. Men can feel power shifts and they react like psychos.

divination__ · 2021-03-22T16:05:09+00:00

Those men are projecting. They themselves feel like they are unloveable, they are scared to be alone, and feel that they are the bottom of the pile. To see women who are also exhausted by the dating scene and their prospects (but for much different and frankly, terrifying reasons), brings up several emotions - fear that if women raise their standards, they have even less chance. Secondly, for the even more deluded ones it confronts them with something they would rather not acknowledge - the deep down fear that the problem IS them and not whatever warped view of the world they've built up. Lastly, it is anger at us raising our standards at all, because they cannot, and being happy without them. Frankly I think a lot of them would prefer if we were angry and couldn't get laid in the same way that they are, instead we are angry for not being respected and treated in the way we treat our partners.

Also, under patriarchy, anything women do that shows we are human beings with as much depth and rich inner lives and free will as men, rather than simple sexual creatures who can be coerced into sex and pleasing any man with some simple manipulation tactics, makes them angry because it goes against their misogynistic and patriarchal brainwashing.

There is a reason why crumbling empires turn nationalistic and authoritarian in their last breaths - they're showing off their military might in a flailing attempt to regain some power and control they're rapidly losing. Misogynistic men are the same. They're lashing out because it makes them feel weak.

Don't lose hope. I have friends with genuinely amazing, sweet partners who tick all the FDS boxes. They're out there, they may be rare, but men with empathy, intelligence, and self-worth will step up to womens' higher standards rather than lash out and try to bring women down.

2021-03-22T16:28:28+00:00

They hate that we're exposing their tactics.

I love the hate mail. They tried to dox me on one of the MGTOW subs and I thought it was hilarious. I get gratification knowing I got under their skin.

dembar126 · 2021-03-22T16:38:46+00:00

The sexual/relationship strategy of the LVM redpiller is at odds with ours. They know that the more FDS succeeds, the harder it is for their sexual strategy to succeed. They know this because the tips on this sub for how to vet them and avoid them is accurate. We're telling the truth about them, and they don't like it.

Their ideology also pushes the idea that redpill men are "high value" desirable men because they're "alpha males" who don't display emotions, don't care about our feelings, are sexually experienced, and "take charge" of women like we're dogs. In other words they push the idea that assholes are desirable because they want to be able to abuse women.

FDS on the opposite hand, tells women that these men are LVM. They know that if more women recognize them as low value, their supply of women to abuse runs low.

So yes, pissing these guys off means you're doing something right. If you're not pissing incels and redpillers off, it means you're an easy target for them.

2021-03-22T17:05:17+00:00

It's the death rattle of the patriarchy.

They also have no self control, which is why they're all addicted to porn and full of rage. Pathetic.

Mcccy · 2021-03-22T16:53:28+00:00

Yep. I don't see them sending tons and tons of hate mail to subs that posts advice on how to basically emotionally abuse women or subs where women get beat up.

They hate we are starting to recognise bad behaviours and teach younger women about these behaviours and instead of thinking "Hey maybe I should learn something so I can make my relashionships with women better and better myself" they go "MiSANdRY!!"

eatnthrowtrashaway · 2021-03-22T17:10:59+00:00

Yeah I find the mail satisfying. I’ve had scrotes call me every name in the book regarding post here from a gold digger to much less sfw things. Everytime it makes me feel weirdly powerful: just that they’re so bothered and threatened by an unapologetic woman. It encourages me in a interesting way. I love pissing off worthless men. If the message is gross is only further proves my points here!

2021-03-22T15:48:14+00:00

They wouldn’t be constantly talking about us, annoying us, writing essays about us if they were not scared. They would ignore us.

“Well behaved women rarely make history.”

tallwomenneedlovetoo · 2021-03-22T18:02:38+00:00

I love when men try to explain themselves to me in my inbox. It’s hilarious. It just shows how disgusting and entitled men are. These guys hopping in your dms feel entitled to you, your mind, and your viewpoints and it upsets them to the nth degree when you post anything that isn’t pro-scrote and scrote-adjacent propaganda.

It shows how weak and sniveling they are, that they come to try to tell you, a internet stranger, that your opinion about them is wrong. Like, sir, please go do something more productive with your time, like playing in rush hour traffic, because I’m a stonewall of block and deleting goodness. 😂

2021-03-22T20:02:17+00:00

Isn't there a phrase that goes something like if you're pissing people off you're doing something right? Narcs and users don't like it when you challenge them, hence the hate mail.

2021-03-22T21:03:13+00:00

Yes. Yes absolutely. The more men hate something, the better it probably is for women.

pickadaisy · 2021-03-23T00:43:41+00:00

You are correct in your instinct.

May I suggest you just delete? I know by line one that it’s a guy so I don’t even bother reading them now.

Imma go write a post about this.

ShegoGreen · 2021-03-23T00:44:01+00:00

To me, it shows how much they don't care about real issues. They don't care that young teen boys are addicted to pornography and it shapes the way they view women. They don't care that pornography is a billion $ industry that has strong ties to human trafficking, mainly targeting women and children. They don't care that trafficked victims are forced to be addicted to drugs. They don't care that fetishes and porn itself is extremely degrading towards women. And they don't care that it's all over Reddit.

Nope. Instead FDS is the problem.

Platipus6 · 2021-03-22T22:54:17+00:00

fearful-of-abandonment part of me - that gets triggered by the messages I receive.

That's their M.O. Intimidation and triggering fears.

I've never had a GOOD ex threaten me that I'd die alone if I left him.

Any "advice" from men serves them. That's why we block and delete haha. Who cares what they have to say. It's how to make men happy, not women.

sleepykittn · 2021-03-23T06:44:26+00:00

Yep it all comes back to silencing women to keep their privilege to continue oppressing women under their brainwashing that theyve tried so hard to keep going. You cant unshatter the rose glass. They are threatened.

Title	Do you think hate mail directed at FDS members is an indication that we're doing something right?
Author	questionasker012
Upvotes	176
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Date	March 22, 2021 4:29 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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