Does this seem like a red flag?

shrno · 2020-04-24T08:59:26+00:00

🚩 "Not just hookup and not set on relationships only" then proceeds to bitch about girls who don't know what they want and describe relationship activities then add "without drama" in there.

🚩 "Great girl, interesting, gorgeous. The whole deal" He's describing to you ANOTHER girl he dated because...??? You talked about your experience and he responded by describing the other woman to you before sharing his experience with OLD.

🚩 "And I'm not possessive or jealous but I don't want to share my girlfriend" THIS. This is what jealous people say. They always do. He assures you he's not possessive so you let your guard down. DON'T.

🚩 "So you are not closed to something exclusive if you meet a good guy™️" He's getting your hopes up.

cherrybombfield · 2020-04-24T05:16:54+00:00

He wants a "cool" girl lol. And he's not set on relationships SMH

This is not just red flags this is blocked and Next instantly. And that is before you even get to the drama part. Do you know who is dramatic? People who say they don't like drama that is who.

Please don't entertain this clown.

xlillinxysx · 2020-04-24T04:41:44+00:00

I mean.. Do you actually have to ask if that's a red flag?

SeaNegotiation8 · 2020-04-24T05:33:45+00:00

He doesn’t want to be held responsible when he does something horrible and selfish. If you ever call him out or express yourself, he’ll accuse you of being “dramatic.”

loftycries · 2020-04-24T12:52:43+00:00

Ew ew ew ew ew. This whole conversation has me feeling gross. He reminds me of someone I know (pre-FDS days) who turned out to be a total clingy, possessive, pornsick CREEP. Block him IMMEDIATELY.

marsupialface · 2020-04-24T11:48:28+00:00

So as the above all said... but honestly the fact he’s answering your questions and not asking any back for the most part annoys me lol. Seemed like he was v much expecting you to drive the convo

goddess-of-compost · 2020-04-24T14:47:04+00:00

This guy wants the benefits of a relationship without the responsibilities, which inevitably causes “drama” ... yet he’ll blame you for having basic needs and standards any woman would in a romantic connection. If you fall for his crap, you may try to contort yourself to pretend not to have needs, to avoid seeming like these “other”, “dramatic” exes.

AyemHerself · 2020-04-25T01:52:42+00:00

Here's a better question. Your instinct is obviously telling you something's not right. You don't seem enthused about dating him. What exactly is keeping you from moving on?

2020-04-25T02:13:03+00:00

Yes. He complains about women right off the bad.. kind of implying "all women are liars".

lilitha134 · 2020-04-25T22:35:12+00:00

The "orgies" Girl doesn't exist, dude wants a 3-way or a NSA relationship and was testing the waters.

You can do better, drop him. He honestly sounds a bit dumb.

Lethalprincessrabbit · 2020-04-27T13:52:26+00:00

ewwww he's disgusting

Title	Does this seem like a red flag?
Author	thgeye
Upvotes	8
Comments	18
Date	April 24, 2020 1:19 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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