I love FDS but lately it feels like more and more post are being made that give me pause and question if self work actually happening. Just want to make sure everyone out there is doing their own self work, going to therapy, actively learning about attachment styles, generational trauma, and their own short comings. I’m saying this because too many of the post lately feel far more boastful about shutting men down, which is fine but starts to ring more like you’re looking for a congratulatory like or a post for an easy upvote. I feel like the more work I do on myself the less likely I am to want/need to post about interaction with LVM, sure they are still an issue but they aren’t worth the time dwelling or boasting that I “shut that asshole down!”

Is anyone else seeing this upturn, or am I missing some kind of point of this page?